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I Have Anxiety

Panic and anxiety disorders are very real and can be very intense. I've been battling Generalized Anxiety Disorder comorbid with Panic Disorder with bouts of Agoraphobia. I also have Major Depressive Disorder. It is not at all uncommon for anxiety and depression to go hand in hand. I've controlled it fairly well with medication for years. I'm going to therapy to help make the lifestyle changes to further improve my situation.

I'd like to improve on techniques such as deep breathing and meditation. Exercising the mind, just as important as the body and soul. Best of luck to anyone else dealing with an anxiety disorder!
SatanBurger · 36-40, FVIP
I have panic disorder but haven't had an attack in years though I'm always on the verge of one, I know it can come back someday as I don't take medication for it. I've found alternative therapies work quite well but the lingering effects are still there.

The way I dealt with it when I had severe agoraphobia sounds simple but it's actually really hard. It took me about 3 years just to manage agoraphobia, I say manage because that never goes away also.

Whenever I go into one, I literally just let everything go and embrace it, I used to hide it as well and now I'm fairly open about it. I won't let anyone shame me about it because trying to fight against my disorder does no good really.

When you try to fight or hide against it, you trick your brain into thinking that something is wrong. When you first embrace it, you'll still have the lingering effects but what you'll find is that it will be shorter lasting, over time you'll know when you start to go into one so you can deal with it before it comes on.

Aside from the above, I also have certain techniques, one of those is rationalization.

Sometimes I can't rationalize and I rationalize that by saying to myself that sometimes there is no reason for a panic attack, it just happens. And I have to remind myself to just go with it, it takes every fiber of my being to not fight against it because that's your first instinct.

Then I work on deep breathing somewhere private or even public, I don't care lol.

But for the rest, usually talking it over with myself works fairly well:

"I haven't ate so I'm just hungry because my blood sugar"
"I'm over tired"
"I just got into an argument and need to calm down"
"Of course I'm not lost, that's just your anxiety acting up, I know where I am" (I think that last one is a bit of disassociation on my part.)

Then if all else fails I just think of cats of course, that does work to an extent also, I've often thought of getting a therapy animal for that reason.

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NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
i stopped drinking cola and wow it made a huge difference!!! If you drink caffeine, ditch it.
NiftyWhite · 46-50, F
make you MORE anxious?? @SW-User
SW-User
@NiftyWhite that's what the article said,yes
StrayTom · 41-45, M
@NiftyWhite I'm glad to hear it made a huge difference for you! I just spent the evening learning some new songs on the guitar, something else I find relaxing. Learning to play an instrument. It slows down the body and the mind's internal tempo and gives you something else to focus on...

@SW-User That's interesting to hear about grapefruit juice. I have to avoid it because of the medications I take, it can interfere with them. Sucks because I really love the stuff!
SatanBurger · 36-40, FVIP
There's several books I recommend, don't know if they will help you or not because everyone is different but thought I'd suggest it anyways.

One of them is called Dare: The New Way to End Anxiety and Stop Panic Attacks.. the only thing I don't like about this book like other users said is that he's heavily against medication. I don't take medication but I cert. don't shun it, everything else is golden though.

This book is largely responsible for me getting slightly better, I say slightly because panic never goes away.

https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0956596258/ref=dbs_a_def_rwt_bibl_vppi_i0

Get Out of Your Mind and Into Your Life: The New Acceptance and Commitment Therapy

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0054M063A/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1

I would def. have a look at those two books, both of those books are basically about something called acceptance therapy, which may or may not work for you but I know it will probably help ease some of the panic attacks because you can shorten them by a lot.
SW-User
Sounds like you're doing what you can good luck to you
StrayTom · 41-45, M
@SW-User Thanks! The goal is to get back on the road again. Driving is majorly important to me, so some of the meds are going to have to go. It's a journey!
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