Bri89 · 31-35, M
I am almost 36, and I haven't found anyone either. For some reason,n I really want to, but it's hard.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@Bri89 I want to also but I get it and it's hard. It's hard when everyone considers you inferior
Bri89 · 31-35, M
@IAmNothing Yes, people only like others if they are a certain way. We just have to try and hold out hope. I've gone so far as to consider doing some online dating sites. But I don't know.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@Bri89 I've tried those and it's the same as real life
oldguy73 · 70-79, M
listen my dear, please don't think bad stuff, have you ever tried to go to dating sites that cater to large size girls?? you are good looking, many guys are actually looking for girls like you, you can easily, decide fake ones from honest guys, i would give it a try, some are free, but most might charge maybe, around 20 bucks for an ad, listen i am an honest guy, older but know stuff, please try it, depending on where you live, thier might be places close by, PLEASE TRY
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IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@SomeMichGuy They're not unreasonable because they're longterm end goal type goals. I know it's going to take forever to reach that's why it's longterm.
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oldguy73 · 70-79, M
@SomeMichGuy if she really wanted help. why come here??? no help here, see a dr.
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
May I introduce you to Mr. Patel? Let me tell you about him. He's a good man and is interested in starting a family with a woman like you. He insists he is efficient, proficient, and kind. He has some money saved and would be willing to negotiate on your dowry. He would expect home cooked meals though... every day.
Fertilization · 36-40, F
@IAmNothing Why being rude?? He has suggested a nice proposal. What else??
Fertilization · 36-40, F
@MarkPaul 👏👏👏
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FORMERLYbatovn · 61-69, M
There is nobody in this planet that is perfect....there are short, tall, thin, heavy, disabled, struggling with emotional, mental, psychological issues, those who can't have children, those who struggle with many things....... searching for the "perfect" person, or trying to be the "perfect person" will ALWAYS disappoint you. Be who you are, who God made you.....be honest and real and caring, realize that what you look like or anything like that is NOT who you are!!! Your character, integrity, values, morals, how you treat people is who you are. THAT should be what others find "attractive" about you..... physically we age, go gray, get old, but who you really are doesn't change
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@FORMERLYbatovn too bad god made me inferior
FORMERLYbatovn · 61-69, M
@IAmNothing you're NOT inferior!!! You're listening to the wrong words !!! If you have a pulse, you have a purpose and a reason why you're here at this point in time.
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
Your time isn't running out. If its meant to be then it will happen. Stop buying into that lie that society wants you believe you should look like. There's plenty of men out there who love thick or large women. Dont give up. You have to take charge and take what you want! There's someone out there who is right for you, you just probably haven't met him yet.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@AngelUnforgiven It's not a lie unfortunately. If it was a lie I'd have someone by now.
SomeMichGuy · M
@IAmNothing ...you can't control that any more than you can control the weather.
You seem truly hell-bent on making sure that the problem is so constrained that a solution canNOT be found.
You seem truly hell-bent on making sure that the problem is so constrained that a solution canNOT be found.
JohnS79 · 61-69, M
You have still got 10 good years of breeding time. I know several that delivered at 42, after that it might be!
exchrist · 31-35
Boo! youve got time alot of people dont get married until their 40s.
exchrist · 31-35
@IAmNothing ah fret not humans are oveepopulated and there are plenty of orphans.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@exchrist that doesn't make me feel any better
exchrist · 31-35
@IAmNothing ok its best to take reality as it is you could artificailly inseminate if its thatvyou want offspring. And there are singles aplenty. Try singles events bowling socails. Community stuff. Farmers markets take a class at a community college etc. Just keep trying.
SomeMichGuy · M
Please call the crisis line appropriate for you.
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SomeMichGuy · M
@IAmNothing That's not a plan.
IAmNothing · 31-35, F
@SomeMichGuy It's what I've decided moving forward. Gym,work,home,errands that's it.
SomeMichGuy · M
@IAmNothing We are meant to thrive, not merely survive.
But please do try to make the plan we discussed happen...I think you'll be surprised.
But please do try to make the plan we discussed happen...I think you'll be surprised.
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Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
Plenty of time for all of that.
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