I think I'm going to give up on finding anyone. It's just not going to happen.

I'm just tired of getting nowhere and being passed over because I'm not thin and perfect. Might as well forget about ever becoming a mother too because if I can't find anyone to want to be with me then the child will never happen. I'm just done. I'm 32 on April 30th my time has run out.

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AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F

Your time isn't running out. If its meant to be then it will happen. Stop buying into that lie that society wants you believe you should look like. There's plenty of men out there who love thick or large women. Dont give up. You have to take charge and take what you want! There's someone out there who is right for you, you just probably haven't met him yet.

IAmNothing · 31-35, F

@AngelUnforgiven It's not a lie unfortunately. If it was a lie I'd have someone by now.

SomeMichGuy · M

@IAmNothing ...you can't control that any more than you can control the weather.

You seem truly hell-bent on making sure that the problem is so constrained that a solution canNOT be found.