I think I'm going to give up on finding anyone. It's just not going to happen.

I'm just tired of getting nowhere and being passed over because I'm not thin and perfect. Might as well forget about ever becoming a mother too because if I can't find anyone to want to be with me then the child will never happen. I'm just done. I'm 32 on April 30th my time has run out.

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oldguy73 · 70-79, M

listen my dear, please don't think bad stuff, have you ever tried to go to dating sites that cater to large size girls?? you are good looking, many guys are actually looking for girls like you, you can easily, decide fake ones from honest guys, i would give it a try, some are free, but most might charge maybe, around 20 bucks for an ad, listen i am an honest guy, older but know stuff, please try it, depending on where you live, thier might be places close by, PLEASE TRY

IAmNothing · 31-35, F

@oldguy73 I refuse to go there because that's fetish heaven and I'm not about that life.

oldguy73 · 70-79, M

@IAmNothing you need a shrink, girl, you are not thinking rigth, seems by your talking you want to self destruct,

SomeMichGuy · M

@IAmNothing Not guys looking to feed you and make you bigger; guys who like larger women as they are.

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SomeMichGuy · M

@IAmNothing Probably some are, but not everyone. There are guys here who say that they like women with "some meat on their bones"--THESE guys.

IAmNothing · 31-35, F

@SomeMichGuy I just really don't trust it I'm super skeptical.

oldguy73 · 70-79, M

@IAmNothing trust it, you can check people before contacting them, please wake up and listen, see a councilor, they will help; it is free, please ???????????

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IAmNothing · 31-35, F

@SomeMichGuy I lowkey wonder if i am able to get my thyroid removed and just take meds to take its place. I might see if that's an option. I really want option 1. I really don't want option 2.

SomeMichGuy · M

@IAmNothing Why not give opt 2 a try while persuing option 1?

IAmNothing · 31-35, F

@SomeMichGuy I think focusing all my energy on option 1 is better in the long run. I'm sorry but I refuse to use those fetish sites.

SomeMichGuy · M

@IAmNothing ...? A site for larger women? Wouldn't it be nicer to be thought "hot" for who you are, as you are, rather than actually attempting to swing all the way to a too-low BMI?

IAmNothing · 31-35, F

@SomeMichGuy Yes and what happens when I do drop weight? They'll leave because I'm not their fetish anymore. Yeah I'd rather swing for something good in the long run than settle.

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IAmNothing · 31-35, F

@SomeMichGuy They're not unreasonable because they're longterm end goal type goals. I know it's going to take forever to reach that's why it's longterm.

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oldguy73 · 70-79, M

@SomeMichGuy if she really wanted help. why come here??? no help here, see a dr.