How do I cope with

I'm sorry this is going on. I've been in that very situation so many times, and I know how bad that feels. It truly sucks.

If it's of any consequence, I wonder if people who ostracize you and gossip about you are worth having in your life. There are a lot of people who won't do that. And, if they have a problem with something you did or said, they will let you know in a kind and non-judgmental way, but won't throw you out of the nest.

Sounds like you might have been hanging out with the wrong kind of people. AND, maybe you've just outgrown them. If you're not losing friends, you're not growing.

All The Best. 🫂

You have to let the hurt run its course. It'll hurt for a while but eventually it'll heal, even if it feels like it won't. You don't need 'friends' like that in your life.

Why waste time and energy on those who don't want to associate with you for inexplicable reasons? Become involved with some extracurricular activities at school where you will meet others with a fresh slate. Otoh, if they did meet with you and listed some explicit reasons for cutting you off, then evaluate whether you may need to make some changes in how you interact with people. Not saying you have to accept their criticisms and change to suit them -- just accept the feedback and make your own evaluation of whether there is any truth in their comments, and changes you need to work on.

[@idontlikesock] 🤔first of all the issue is with you and your former friend and whatever you did others should not get involved and ostricise you .far as you former friend goes you realise now you where in the wromng have you tried too sit down and talk about it with her

I am so very sorry that happened to You, they were not your friends to begin with if they did that, You most likely exposed them somehow.