How do I cope with

How do I cope with losing my friends? Our relationship wasn't the best and I feel like they act like I am the one to blame. They gonna talk to me today after school apparently. They kicked me out from groupchats and blocked me. I heard them gossiping about me. I honestly don't know what I did wrong. How do I cope? I'm not very social and everyone in class is already in their own groups. They sat one desk away from me now.

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PhoenixPhail · M

I'm sorry this is going on. I've been in that very situation so many times, and I know how bad that feels. It truly sucks.

If it's of any consequence, I wonder if people who ostracize you and gossip about you are worth having in your life. There are a lot of people who won't do that. And, if they have a problem with something you did or said, they will let you know in a kind and non-judgmental way, but won't throw you out of the nest.

Sounds like you might have been hanging out with the wrong kind of people. AND, maybe you've just outgrown them. If you're not losing friends, you're not growing.

All The Best. 🫂