How do I cope with

How do I cope with losing my friends? Our relationship wasn't the best and I feel like they act like I am the one to blame. They gonna talk to me today after school apparently. They kicked me out from groupchats and blocked me. I heard them gossiping about me. I honestly don't know what I did wrong. How do I cope? I'm not very social and everyone in class is already in their own groups. They sat one desk away from me now.

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dancingtongue · 80-89, M

Why waste time and energy on those who don't want to associate with you for inexplicable reasons? Become involved with some extracurricular activities at school where you will meet others with a fresh slate. Otoh, if they did meet with you and listed some explicit reasons for cutting you off, then evaluate whether you may need to make some changes in how you interact with people. Not saying you have to accept their criticisms and change to suit them -- just accept the feedback and make your own evaluation of whether there is any truth in their comments, and changes you need to work on.