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Do you feel you need to be "On" for others?

Like pleasing them, making conversation, being social etc..
Or, do you not care too much and just say or do what you feel/need in each moment?
Magenta · F
I have at times. But I hate feeling like I have to entertain someone or fill their voids. It's exhausting.
My nature is to be free spirited and independent.
@Magenta Thats how my telationship ened exhausted trying to please someone who would never be happy. He told me his nature has always never been content or happy. Hes lived his life like that. I thought I could help but it ended bitterly
I do try to people please its a trait installed since childhood. I am trying to break free from this but its difficult.
Ive read books watched videos & get the theory but at the end of the day I end up people pleasing most of the time. 🥺
SW-User
I have been on for other's before; however, I don't make practice of it. I don't love social media, so one will often get me at my best if I have found what is good for me.
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
I do what I please.

I do not even answer work e-mails right away.
Def no. I assume I'm not going to be liked regardless so why be on. Lol
Strongtea · 22-25, M
I totally feel like I need to please.
NeoNeo · 46-50, M
I do that sometimes
Iwillwait · M
Sometimes.
JamaI · M
Someone tell Kog "You need to behave". Kog ignore them. Human get angry and yell at Kog. So Kog rip their head off and go back to watching TV.

Well, Kog got fired because me guess customer want head attached to body.
CalmUnderThePalm · 31-35, M
Good question
GovanDUNNY · M
Your always on Michelle just keep it going
TheLordOfHell · 41-45
I've got to be in a peopling mood to handle more than a few, but other than that, I can just be myself and get by just fine
Zonuss · 41-45, M
No. I'm my own person.
I do as I please.
I create my own happiness.
Thank you. 🙂
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
I like to be "on" my girlfriend, if that's what you mean.

 
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