@bijouxbroussard she said that she is a live and let live kind of person. because it's better for society. And I thought you disagreed with that. Of course Hatred and Bigotry aren't good for society.
"Traditional" values are usually a dog whistle for sexism, racism, phobias, child abuse, etc... Just a look at the traditional values users on this site shows people realllly into punishments for children. It's also a political buzzword of the GOP in their crusade against their enemies. All in all what once might have been okay is now so soiled as to be disgusting.
my values would be considered as such but it's not the reason behind them and I think others are much the same. So the question is better as what I think of people who aren't like me. The easiest and most encompassing assessment I can give is that they are a dashed line while those like me are solid.
I like to be independent and have my own money, my own say, and my own bedroom- even in a relationship. But I'm more traditional in that I like for my partner to have more of a masculine "role" in the relationship. I am a passive, gentle person so I do better when my partner can step up and take the lead (but not try to be my dad).
People who are wise, have a higher chance at having blessings in their lives.. People who are not have a higher chance of experiencing tragedies in their lives..
Following wisdom and being wise is worth far more then all the IQ points in mensa..
i think i am, in some ways. and i dont really care if ppl choose to follow tradition or not as long as they dont forcefully push their values on other ppl
People have different beliefs and values and attitudes. Mine are traditional. I can relate to people who are different in different ways but the closer the relationships are the more significant those beliefs and values become to me, and then they really start to matter.
I have no intention of entering a romantic relationship ever again, but if I did and sought commitment, which why would I not if in love, her beliefs and values would have to be close to mine.
I'm not traditional or new age. I just have my own weird thoughts on things. I think that humans aren't meant to be monogamous because it seems that all monogamous people cheat. People can think of excuses but I think it goes back to early ancestral evolution of tribes and such. Also men and women think very differently and in early days of human relationships, monogamy didn't really have much of a value as opposed to groups.
I just don't think there's any such thing as monogamy. However, that doesn't mean that people can't have a healthy relationship, it's just that people will do things on the side probably. Men especially usually have multiple women but one main woman, it's just how they are.
Yes, traditional values create stable environments for raising children. However tough economic times have pushed women into the work force creating a breakdown in the roles of the household. Single mother households have been statistically proven to have negative outcomes for the children. It is clear which system will benefit society in the long run, monogamy is built on trust where as polygamy is built on lust.
Positive human values remain the same. Like Love, Compassion, Tolerance, Discipline, respect...etc. But what it means to people, changes with time. So in that respect traditions need to evolve. Else there will be unhealthy conflict. The key is being wise and smart.
no. I dont believe in marriage at all. I used to be fairly traditional to a point, like as in wanting to be married, have a bunch of kids and all that but life had other plans and things that happened that woke me up to it just not being for me. I see no benefit for men to get married these days. Marriage only benefits women and I have worked too hard for everything i have to lose everything all over again
I live in a country with some very ugly "traditional values" so I would not really call myself "traditional". I tend to be a bit wary of people who judge others by that particular yardstick, too.
I am not traditional. My view, however, is that if everyone involved in a relationship is able to give informed consent on the relationship continuing, then it is not my business whether their relationship is traditional or not. People should seek a life that makes them happy.