Why do I want a man special friend although I only want it to be platonic?

@Stuffy is your home big enough to get a roommate? ... just a thought.

@ShadowWorker Thanks I’m between two places, one big and empty I’m in right now but gradually moving into a place with 4 others so hopefully I’ll feel less lonely but we’ll see

@Carissimi Thank you. A man would rather be alone than with a woman who doesn’t want sex. What’s the difference - he can still go to his room to do his thing 😂

@Carissimi well, I'm one. I would like a sexual partner but I have a platonic relationship. Sometimes you can't have everything you want.

You have a platonic relationship with someone you want sex with, or you have a platonic friendship with someone you don’t want sex with? There is a difference. @novaguy2u

@Disguised ok guy behind a trench coat 🧥 lol 😆

@BackyardShaman yes, I believe your right, I’m working on that. Hasn’t paid off yet

@Stuffy and it takes a lot of time I know it’s rough.

@Luckylu this is exactly what I said that women singled in life after their prime go through and that's what I meant the robe as metaphor. The upbringing becomes part of the basic instinct.

I could not think of a word for molest in a lighter way just so women just let down their sensitivity gaurd.

[quote]To overcome this I have to not care what others think of me.[/quote]
Yes. That's what preparing the mind first is to answer who am I living for, Who is there to care for me , why not just date and breakup as and when, why not invite some trouble in life so there is someone calling atleast to yell ?

[quote] cannot do as you suggest. I’m just not wired that way.[/quote]
Check if it's time to rewire. What's the use of old worn-out wires !

We have all gone through that jump in life right from childhood.. learning to cycle, diving into water and even sex the first time. So it's just another phase. Else we remain being the wimp not bothered by any and not bothering any.

It's just being proactive like men .. and not wait for men to approach traditionally. Why not just talk to a stranger and say .. Hi .. you looking good or Your shirt is cool ..

Ever seen the reaction of guys ? So just make the difference.

Or why not trouble some old couple as if to snatch the man . Maybe their life will become active as compared to the sedentary lifestyle they may be in.

@Luckylu I do not want to encourage further replies from this in10rjfox. Seems pointless. Thinking he needs to tell us what is best for us and what we Should do. Rather than listening. 👎🏻

@Stuffy sure.. it's not my problem anyway. What's the use of listening to problem without working a way out. No use complaining or brooding over a situation.

@Stuffy we all in the long run have control over ourselves.

@looking4thesun I chose not to argue about that.

@Stuffy it's all good.

@novaguy2u well I’mOnly just divorced so, maybe with a little looking

@SW-User massage should be taught in grade school: Everyone gets free professional massage from friends AND family

@Stuffy totally agree 😄

@Stuffy you got me on that one lol 😂

@whowasthatmaskedman what is that supposed to mean. Like I don’t know how to be a friend? Maybe you didn’t mean it that way.
Yes I offer friendship, I put my self out there, in listen, I support, etc.

@Stuffy And for some thats enough. You just sounded overwhelmed..😷

@Barebum61 I’d 🤗 u, but I’d have to ask you to put your pants on first 😂

@Stuffy see that would be a problem🙂

@Barebum61 We can just live without it then 👍🏼