Why do I want a man special friend although I only want it to be platonic?

[b][/b]If I just want platonic friends they could be man or woman. But I specifically seek men. I do also want women friends but they seem uninterested. You know busy or whatever.
I’m just so dam lonely. I feel like asking everyone I meet … will you be my friend? Lol I feel pathetic. Where are my friends? 😢

Maybe I even can be in a romance someday but there has to be a real friendship first.

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Carissimi · F

I’d love a male platonic friend, but I doubt I ever will. Men want sex for the most part. For years, I’ve heard men and women talk about their opposite sex platonic friends, but I’ve never come across one.

Stuffy · 61-69, F

@Carissimi Thank you. A man would rather be alone than with a woman who doesn’t want sex. What’s the difference - he can still go to his room to do his thing 😂

novaguy2u · 70-79, M

@Carissimi well, I'm one. I would like a sexual partner but I have a platonic relationship. Sometimes you can't have everything you want.

Carissimi · F

You have a platonic relationship with someone you want sex with, or you have a platonic friendship with someone you don’t want sex with? There is a difference. @novaguy2u