Is this a red flag?

Meet up with that friends group together with him, hold up your glass and say:

[i]"I have an announcement to make. I am officially not a love target to anyone of you and if anyone treats me like the way (his name) has since I got single and love bombing me, trying to seduce me when drunk , tell me it's a secret between us that I shouldn't share to all of you and all other predatory behaviour, I will do this. *Throws drink in his face*

I will of course meet for friends gatherings but this man *points at him* is from yesterday's creep disgusting texting spam messages blocked and cut out of my life.

I hope you all can respect my decision and that the rest of us remain friends. Due to some unpleasant presence here tonight I will not stay to puke. I hope you understand. Everyone else but him with a drink in his face has my socials and numbers, feel free to catch up, love ya all. Bye[/i]!"

Get away from that love. As fast as you can. Anyone who asks to keep anything a secret is no good.

Did you go out with him? You would have been perfectly justified in backing out of it. Saying to him, "I was very drunk when you asked me out and I had already told you I didn't want to date anyone."

If I were going out with someone who I respected, I would want everyone to know!

I would wonder if he is hiding something.

The first thing I would do is tell everyone.

Why ask you out when he knew you were drunk in the first place then telling you not to say anything!!!, be careful Rosie 👀

Yeah, i think he's playing games of some type... You don't need that in your life

He has someone else and wants you to be his fwb.

Forget about him, he's an idiot.

ma'am *sips drink*I don't know what to tell you. I do a lot of shit that I ain't proud of while I'm fucked up. that's why it's called life. we'll never understand it. pass me those peanuts will ya

I don’t know, How drunk was he when he asked?

What is Love Bomb ?

What? I’m too drunk to understand.

A wise man once said

GET TO THE CHOPPA!!!

It’s a huge red flag.

Any one asking you not to tell anyone about the two of you is up to no good. You’re receiving good advice from people here.

Remind him that you said from the beginning you weren’t ready to date, and you’ve decided to stick with that.

If he [b]pushes[/b] after that, then it becomes a matter of disrespect for your boundaries and you might consider seriously whether or not even a [b]friendship[/b] is still possible. 🥺

If you have to ask if it’s a Red flag, you already know the answer

Huge red flag. Why is he trying to hide this?

Doesn't sound friendly at all. No good can come of this. Get away.

Run the other way, as fast and as far as you can, his intentions are evil.