Is this a red flag?

My friend started acting extra friendly 5 weeks a ago, I told him at the beginning that I got out of a bad relationship so i wasn't looking to date anyone at the moment, He clearly knew i was drunk when a few nights ago he asked me out. VERY drunk me agreed,
But as someone who i thought was responsible why would he do that? Number too he literally love bombed me and we have a few mutual friends in our inner So he repeats so many times , don't tell anyone we talk. I'm taken back because one i would never because it's not even serious, but why would he keep love bombing me to , turn around and say don't tell anyone we talk (mind you repeatedly)🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

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bijouxbroussard · F

It’s a huge red flag.

Any one asking you not to tell anyone about the two of you is up to no good. You’re receiving good advice from people here.

Remind him that you said from the beginning you weren’t ready to date, and you’ve decided to stick with that.

If he [b]pushes[/b] after that, then it becomes a matter of disrespect for your boundaries and you might consider seriously whether or not even a [b]friendship[/b] is still possible. 🥺