I feel all men are pretending, even good men. I feel men only want to suppress women 😔

@Cloud7593 people who are mean for little to no reason, they are mean to themselves from my observation.

@Cloud7593 i have seen women too like that.... maybe it's not about the gender.... I got into fight with a mean woman, she was very mean, take out her frustartions on me , blame me for everything and also tried to convince my family to abandon our old dog just to hurt me while fighting with her. She feels superior that's why didn't mind hurting innocent animal and involving it in our fight, she often take down on me and also act like know-it-all even when she doesn't know anything. She messed up all her previous relationships.

@TheRascallyOne I have to agree with you regarding some women. But equally, with some men, the only thing they have to offer a woman is their money..😷

@whowasthatmaskedman it happened to me, i generally don't date guys only for looks or money even when i get the offer. One guy came to me and only talk about his looks and money, and also he seemed very insecure. He had nothing good to offer personality wise and also was very misogynistic and complained about women not choosing him but choosing rich and good looking bad boys and getting used by them and how women don't like nice guys like him. He had nothing good to offer me by his personality wise, atleast i thought he can provide money, he didn't make money for himself well, let alone for me, so i rejected him for his money, he got mad at me for not being sure about giving him a chance despite making less money and called me bad words , said i am just like everyone and also passed comments on my body parts bcuz it was online and he knew he can get away from it. He claimed himself loyal even when he is very perverted and in getting to know him phase he acted like a pervert creep most of time.

@whowasthatmaskedman even if he made money and had very good looks, i would have still rejected him for his personality and behaviour if he continued behaving that way!

@smiler2012 not one lol, many .

@sahi81 Close. Establish who you want to be and men who admire those qualities will find you. Why does anyone need to submit when you can cooperate? It worked for me with my partner of 50 years. And we achieved more together than either could have done alone..😷

@whowasthatmaskedman i am not good at anything, i do everything in average or even dumb ways... i am not brave enough tbh . I want to be independent atleast financially... Only that sounds like a realistic goal

@sahi81 Then thats where you start. A journey of a thousand miles begins with one step. Choose a doable amount and put it away every single day or week. 😷

@Holden such yes, i seen many bad women too.

@SStarfish i heard trauma can cause to attract same type individuals or be attracted to same type wrong individuals. Maybe that could be happening in my case, that's why i feel disillusioned. Had repeated bad experiences with men.

@sahi81 maybe you need to take a break and figure out where you are finding these wrong type of guys..

@StevetheSleeve i too think so... But i am scared of next one too turning out bad after getting into a relationship and abusing or betraying me 😔

@Mordechai normal men didn't try suppress me but they felt superior and were apathetic or even cruel to animals/pets. I don't trust them too, i think they r pretending

@Bleak From my personal experiences, the way I saw men treat me and other women and also my culture.

The men i met till now, good ones i thought were good were just pretending, the men i thought were bad were being real. Now, when if I see any good men, i feel they r also pretending, I'm not able to trust

@sahi81 It will take time. But good men do exist.

@Prettybratbi1tch but i want a partner

@sahi81 unfortunately we can't always get what we want. You gotta work on yourself first

@BigGuy2 the western men i met online did, everywhere in this world men r same at their core except for some cultural differences!

@sahi81 i don't ... i find it shocking that women have been suppressed for the past 2,000 yrs, so i treat them as equals