I feel all men are pretending, even good men. I feel men only want to suppress women 😔

@whowasthatmaskedman western or indian, i want only a good partner. Online even western guys bullied me to feel superior.

I agree with the cultural issues thpugh

@sahi81 While I do understand, there is still the point that the first issue is about who you choose to be in the first place. Being the person you wish to be sets the rules of the game. And I do wish you luck with it.
On a slightly different issue, when my daughter was a teenager she had the usual angst about being popular and fitting in. My advice was to ignore those she was trying to fit in with and tread the path she wanted. She did and pretty soon a few others were following her. It takes one to have the courage..😷

@whowasthatmaskedman u mean men will follow me and submit to me if i go my own path instead of searching for good men and trying to be accepted by them? 😂

@sahi81 Close. Establish who you want to be and men who admire those qualities will find you. Why does anyone need to submit when you can cooperate? It worked for me with my partner of 50 years. And we achieved more together than either could have done alone..😷

@whowasthatmaskedman i am not good at anything, i do everything in average or even dumb ways... i am not brave enough tbh . I want to be independent atleast financially... Only that sounds like a realistic goal

@sahi81 Then thats where you start. A journey of a thousand miles begins with one step. Choose a doable amount and put it away every single day or week. 😷