If you are friendly with someone and you hear someone speaking rudely about her or him e.g. blaming her or him for something would u be honest & tell?

Best to stay out of it. Back biting on social media, it's the nature of the beast.

If I defend you, will you tell me your name in DMs?

Well I'd probably appreciate someone telling me that. I'm sure many people are talking about me behind my back since I'm being blocked so often 🤦‍♀️

that is what is happening to me. i was part of a group of women that met every single monday night. I have this feeling that my friend is meeting them on the fly and i was not invited. I am not sure why but it hurts my friend would do this to me.

All my friends and family know, and acquaintances soon find out that I deal in Zero drama and Zero rumors or speculations about anyone or anything.

Example if I hear hey this person said that and that what do you think. I will take the person making the statement to the person they are talking about and say Joe Bob here asked me if you said or did this or that, and what my opinion is about it. So, did you say or do this or that so I know how to properly reply to good ole Joe Bob right here next to me. That ends that crap very rapidly and they Know I am extremely serious and transparent when it comes rumor and drama. It has left me without the rumor-ist or drama queens as friends, but I prefer life this way, so it is not loss to me.

I hate that crap, and damn sure do not put me in the middle of it either I will go out of my way to bust the Balls or Ovaries over it.

i always tell

even if i dont like them so much

gotta respect [b][c=BF0000] the code[/c][/b]

I value my friends, and I have their backs.

I would tell them what was said and who said it.

Your question is a little confusing.
But what is between them and the other person is their business, not mine. There's always another side to it. I'd shut them down say I don't wanna hear it.

I'd keep my mouth shut.

Spreading information like this only fans the flames. And a confident person knows that people will make comments about them and not pay them any attention.

I usually stay out of it. I have been hearing stuff like this ever since I was in high school. Seems to me that high school mentality is alive and well.

Probably. But it would kinda depend on the exact situation.

of course, it depends on what it is the person asks.

Glad to not be in the mix and just sit back and enjoy my lunch.