If you are friendly with someone and you hear someone speaking rudely about her or him e.g. blaming her or him for something would u be honest & tell?

Or are you scared and or do not wanna make things worse and or upset her or him?

what if the person asks you first about something which has something to do with what was being said?

Ok: Edit edit..THIS is happening in real life not online..

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kartoffelkopf2 · 36-40, M

i always tell

even if i dont like them so much

gotta respect the code

PrincessRoarBuddy · F

@kartoffelkopf2 True but to me if someone has been off with me before and so I do not trust them..I do not think I would tell.

How about someone that might cry? Would u still tell?

kartoffelkopf2 · 36-40, M

@PrincessRoarBuddy

Hm

I only tend to have a super small circle, so its only people i like, respect or they are family of those i like or respect. So ... if someone talks scheiße about then, by telling them perhaps they can make the situation better. or fight. idk

crying is better than lying, and i dont wait to be asked before being honest with someone

it reminds me of someone i know in the army who posted something that said, *dont tell if they dont ask, dont give if they dont need* - i am not wired like that