If you are friendly with someone and you hear someone speaking rudely about her or him e.g. blaming her or him for something would u be honest & tell?

Or are you scared and or do not wanna make things worse and or upset her or him?

[b]what if the person asks you first about something which has something to do with what was being said?

Ok: Edit edit..THIS is happening in real life not online..[/b]

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kartoffelkopf2 · 36-40, M

i always tell

even if i dont like them so much

gotta respect [b][c=BF0000] the code[/c][/b]

PrincessRoarBuddy · F

@kartoffelkopf2 [b][big]True but to me if someone has been off with me before and so I do not trust them..I do not think I would tell.

How about someone that might cry? Would u still tell?[/big][/b]

kartoffelkopf2 · 36-40, M

@PrincessRoarBuddy

Hm

I only tend to have a super small circle, so its only people i like, respect or they are family of those i like or respect. So ... if someone talks scheiße about then, by telling them perhaps they can make the situation better. or fight. idk

crying is better than lying, and i dont wait to be asked before being honest with someone

it reminds me of someone i know in the army who posted something that said, *dont tell if they dont ask, dont give if they dont need* - i am not wired like that