If you are friendly with someone and you hear someone speaking rudely about her or him e.g. blaming her or him for something would u be honest & tell?

Or are you scared and or do not wanna make things worse and or upset her or him?

what if the person asks you first about something which has something to do with what was being said?

Ok: Edit edit..THIS is happening in real life not online..

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akindheart · 61-69, F

that is what is happening to me. i was part of a group of women that met every single monday night. I have this feeling that my friend is meeting them on the fly and i was not invited. I am not sure why but it hurts my friend would do this to me.

PrincessRoarBuddy · F

@akindheart Sorry to hear that. Oh right, that sucks.. I know what it is like to be left out when everyone meets up.

Yeah it is hurtful, could be a reason but mostly not.. or they say they "forgot" or something like that lol.

Can u not try asking?

akindheart · 61-69, F

@PrincessRoarBuddy you know what i am going to do? show up and see if my feelings are correct. then I don't have to ask...(thank you)

PrincessRoarBuddy · F

@akindheart Nice, best to do I think and to see who is a true friend or not.. true. And you are welcome