If you are friendly with someone and you hear someone speaking rudely about her or him e.g. blaming her or him for something would u be honest & tell?

Or are you scared and or do not wanna make things worse and or upset her or him?

[b]what if the person asks you first about something which has something to do with what was being said?

Ok: Edit edit..THIS is happening in real life not online..[/b]

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akindheart · 61-69, F

that is what is happening to me. i was part of a group of women that met every single monday night. I have this feeling that my friend is meeting them on the fly and i was not invited. I am not sure why but it hurts my friend would do this to me.

PrincessRoarBuddy · F

@akindheart Sorry to hear that. Oh right, that sucks.. [b]I know what it is like to be left out when everyone meets up.

Yeah it is hurtful, could be a reason but mostly not.. or they say they "forgot" or something like that lol.

Can u not try asking?[/b]

akindheart · 61-69, F

@PrincessRoarBuddy you know what i am going to do? show up and see if my feelings are correct. then I don't have to ask...(thank you)

PrincessRoarBuddy · F

@akindheart Nice, best to do I think and to see who is [big][b]a true friend or not..[/b][/big] true. And you are welcome