Does helping others make you upset in a good way ?

Sometimes you don't help by helping.
Sometimes I needed to reach the bottom, in order for me to realise of how enough is enough and to finally take action and save myself.
Sometimes being helped only added to cultivating my victim mentality.
That being said, if I were hungry and you met me, I would like it if you buy me a meal, yes..

Sometimes I have been so grateful for the little help someone gave me as it filled me with hope.
I've been fed and sheltered by strangers, directly or indirectly. This keeps the flame for humanity alive.

What I'm trying to point here is, how life is a complex experience.

But mainly what I'm saying is, if we manage to instill in our heads that by helping we're not necessarily helping, we'd keep our egoic selves humble too
And you'd stop being upset about it, because everyone needs to learn things through their journey and you'd better respect the good and bad experiences...

Nevertheless, thank you for your service...:)

It's called empathy, my friend, and after all you've been through and you're still able to feel that way, that's a beautiful thing! 🫂

In what way do you feel upset? That such people are being ignored and not enough is done to help them?

I am upset to begin with. Helping and communicating makes me a bit less upset.

I once paid for an elderly lady who was in front of me at the deli. She was a tad short of money, so I kicked in the rest. Her reaction was extremely warm and appreciative. It sucks that they're in that position, but I like doing a little something every now and then.

You can't focus on that person's situation or you'll lose your mind. Be glad you had the power to make a difference and you did. That's a great thing.

Here's how I see it... Helping others can be challenging, but can also be very rewarding.

No, I don't feel upset after helping. If anything i guess I feel a bit happy if I was able to help someone.

They aren't your responsibility. Save the nice gestures for when God puts it in your heart to give, when it feels like you've been called to help

That’s called empathy

I have never heard of someone mentioning being upset in a good way.