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Why is this place like highschool?🙄

I never usually post personal stuff here but this just needed to be said.. IF I BLOCK YOU i usually have a valid reason to do so..creating a hate campaign against me just makes you look bad,it also proves that blocking you was the right decision.. so please move on get over it! ..Why you feel the need to warn others about me and make up lies just shows how insecure you are blocking you does not make me a bad person it is my right as a SW member

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Harriet03 · 41-45, F

High-school??
Kindergarten more like!

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LadyJ · F

@Harriet03 lol i know hun

Harriet03 · 41-45, F

@LadyJ 🤣

PhoenixPhail · M

@Harriet03 Yeah. NOW you've got it. 👍
Lots of immature people here.

Magenta · F

It's awful. The biggest turn off for me here is the name calling and bickering. The calling out others and then the band wagon fills up. The emotional maturity level of many is not past about 13.

ETA: Disclaimer.. I have no idea if this post is about someone specific. My comments are strictly [i]in general[/i].

LadyJ · F

@Magenta yes i agree..nobody should be labelled bad for feeling the need to block

Lacemaker · 41-45, F

Blocking is one thing....to be respected, as you say. The way these people conduct themselves afterwards is the problem. A handful are sickly sweet and nicey-nicey for all to see, then stab you in the back, oh so insidiously 😬

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RubySoo · 56-60, F

@LadyJ i havent seen any of it hunni.
But yes...others listen instead of making their own judgements.
When i read posts like yours, i wonder if its the same perps who did it to me....but if course..i cant see their posts coz they have me blocked. It might well be the same 'girl gang' trying to dis those of ys who dont tow their line....

LadyJ · F

@RubySoo yes could be the same ones...they must lead very sad lives

Peaches · F

@Lacemaker So [i][b]true!😎[/b][/i]

GunFinger · F

Blocking anyone here means you respect yourself.🤗

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samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

@GunFinger is love to hear more, but I am off to bed. I hope that, if I ever offend someone, we can talk it through and not resort to blocking either of us.

LadyJ · F

@GunFinger yes I do respect myself and a few here honestly left me with no choice but to block..but we live and learn 🤗

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@GunFinger agreed

Nimbus · M

High School?
You are elevating it to a high degree as sometimes it's like pre-school ;)

LadyJ · F

@Nimbus yes highschool is giving too much credit here

jackjjackson · 61-69, M

That’s an insult to most high schools 😆

LadyJ · F

@jackjjackson 🤣

Trippin · F

Well said. Just reminds me daily that upon a forum perhaps designed to connect others with... To those whom have no such desire it becomes the perfect platform upon which to anonymously express their hate for those who do.

LadyJ · F

@Trippin Yes sometimes theres just too much hate here

SW-User

because you have the teachers pet,
the snitch,the wanna cock of the school,the joker the clever one, the one who's weird that everyone ignores and then theres always one that shits themself 🙄🙈🤦‍♂️😂

SW-User

@SW-User are you the last one on that list? 👀

SW-User

@SW-User and
we have the joker😂🤦‍♂️

LadyJ · F

@SW-User And don't forget the clique of witches who like to gossip about others here behind closed doors 🙄

Dainbramadge · 56-60, M

Whoa!!!!!

Don't let what jerks say here get under your skin.
Just like playground politics so is the likes of S.W. .

When Sally talks about you behind your back it is because she is envious in some way and is trying to make herself feel better than she actually feels.

I had a buddy here that doesn't come around anymore because some of these kind of ass hats started to spread rumors that he was a pedophile. He let it get under his skin and doesn't come anymore because of that.

Damn... I would kill to have people treat me like that. :-(

LadyJ · F

@Dainbramadge oh i don't let them get under my skin i just needed to highlight their behaviour ..if someone blocks me i respect their decision

Budwick · 70-79, M

I like your spunk!
I'm sorry, we've never met here, but I can understand your issue and fully support your plan.

LadyJ · F

@Budwick Thankyou and you have a nice day too 😊

MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F

I know this post is nearly a year old, but this is a huge pet peeve of mine. The whiney "I Got Blocked" posts are just as immature. So what? Grow up and move on instead of acting like it's the end of the world.🙄🤭

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CestManan · 46-50, F

@MoonlightLullaby May be a year old but it seems like it was just last week.
Kind of depressing though that an entire year can vanish in a flash.

ChiefWalksWith40oz · 26-30

@MoonlightLullaby tbh I just comment stuff that's funny. I didn't think that was harmful at all to anybody even if it was irrelevant but I understand that some people have little to no tolerance for it in some instances.
I tend to joke all the time even when I don't necessarily need to & it's more of a personality thing than anything. I've gotten better at it but I'm still working on it.

& I don't usually apologize to people if I don't feel like I did anything wrong but I am sorry because you're cool & I'm not trying to make you feel any type of way. I'm just being light.
Now with my part said, now we may end it 😌

MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F

@CestManan I missed the drama regarding this post, but it's unfortunate these things keep on going. It's a perpetual cycle of childish behavior by supposed to be adults. The victim mentality is prevalent around here

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Valerian · 100+, M

@nightjourney I did! 🙋🏻‍♂️

Adultism is not a funnish condition to aquire and seems to be fatal in most cases! ☹️

😕 Adulting are be hard!
Didn't 🤦🏻‍♂️like it at all!

So .... I 🚮 gave it up! 🤪

Elevatorpitches · F

@nightjourney u got it

XDHyperGirlXD1 · 31-35, F

your still my friend so i will create a love ladyj campaign 😁

cortney · 18-21, F

I don't understand people getting all high and mighty about being blocked. If I was blocked, I'd be embarrassed that I've caused so much mayhem that I couldn't even just be ignored, I had to be blocked 😂

TJNewton · M

@cortney Naughty girl dont do it again :)

LadyJ · F

@cortney Some women just love the whole schoolgirl gossip and drama thing here..😴

SW-User

Happened to me as well. The person was crazy mad cause I blocked him then he and others post bs about me. Soo pathetic

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SW-User

They’re stupid and have idiots to take their side. It’s best to ignore. @LadyJ

LadyJ · F

@SW-User i do now ..and most are blocked

SW-User

Same, I blocked them and their moron followers. @LadyJ

Peaches · F

It IS like high school here...so many immature adults!😎People trying to tell others who to be friends with and worse.👎

Valerian · 100+, M

I used to not block and just ignored those instead.
But their words kept popping back in my face.

So, I've learned to Block anyone that meets my ire and then see if it harms my SP experience any whatsoever. Usually it Does Not.

There's some people here that may be irritating, but usually their personalities exhibit troubled traits that I do understand and so I can't condemn, as they're fine people with human foibles, quirks and needs.

And I've my own foibles, quirks and needs as well!

LadyGrace

LadyJ....same happened to me, but I want you to know, let them act like kindergartners. People know you here, to be well respected, so anything they say negative about you, only makes them look bad, not you. Their opinion doesn't count. The likes of them won't change anyone's mind about you.

Bri89 · 31-35, M

A lot of people may have "grown-up" but never matured past the age of fifteen.

LadyJ · F

@Bri89 yes it certainly looks that way

PiecingBabyFaceTogether · 26-30

Wtf. Ugh some people need to be kicked out of here. They don't understand that letting go helps them first before it helps their opponents. It's not even highschool it's kindergarten seriously. If they are brave and seeing this they can try and warn me against you.
You have a lot of people by your side and a lot of them are mutual friends ❤

LadyJ · F

@PiecingBabyFaceTogether thankyou so much i really appreciate your support 🤗❤..i just wish more people would think for themselves and ignore gossip

PiecingBabyFaceTogether · 26-30

@LadyJ You're very welcome ❤😊

LadyJ · F

@PiecingBabyFaceTogether 🤗

JimboSaturn · 51-55, M

The people who are more adult here don't bock everyone on a whim.

CestManan · 46-50, F

@JimboSaturn Keep in mind that if someone blocks you, they are usually doing you a favor.

JimboSaturn · 51-55, M

@CestManan Yep doesn't bother me in the slightest

SW-User

Damn strait ! I can relate ...
I blocked someone on here and now they are spreading lies about me having alts ..
Now why would i block you then create other alts? Like ...wtf ? If i block soneone i have my reasons ...fucking people are so psycho...

Zonuss · 41-45, M

@SW-User Yep.

LadyJ · F

@SW-User We can't fix stupid I'm afraid..wish we could

SW-User

@LadyJ i don't have that kind of time or energy to bother either

nedkelly · 61-69, M

I hope you are the school principal, as I have been naughty again 😁

Lilymoon · F

I had to write a post along the same lines as this a while back.

I've had mean rude ass shit said about me simply because I chose to block them.

Why they can't move on with their pitiful life is beyond me.

Sucks to be them. Haha;)

LadyJ · F

@Lilymoon It's sad really that they feel the need to go to such lengths 🙄

Lilymoon · F

@LadyJ I must have ruined their whole day 🤣

LadyJ · F

@Lilymoon now that's a plus 😁😂🤣

msros · F

And a whole bunch of know-it-alls, lol.

ExtremeNext · 31-35

Keep blocking hun I have a gun 🤫 if you need to borrow it OK 🤫🤫

LadyJ · F

@ExtremeNext 🤣🤣..haha thankyou for the kind offer

RubySoo · 56-60, F

Oh no! I have gad this happen to me too...not nice.
I hope yr ok. X

LadyJ · F

@RubySoo I'm fine hun thank you x

CestManan · 46-50, F

That is why I say it is better to focus more on the conversations rather than who is who.

I think about half the main clique on here has me blocked anyways which is fine because I do not like walking on egg shells for anyone.

For you though, I have never heard nor seen anything negative being said.

JohnOinger · 41-45, M

@CestManan sometimes people hear from someone telling them people have said something negative in PMS

CestManan · 46-50, F

@JohnOinger I have heard (or read really) gossip in PMs but normally it is about people who are genuine ass-wipes.

Even so, I still like to form my own opinion of others.
Well like we have one lady here who does have a shaky grasp on reality and people make fun of her but I try to be nice to her simply because she catches enough hell as it is.

jackjjackson · 61-69, M

A number of users have not matured that much yet.

TurtlePink · 22-25, F

Girl!!! AMEN!!! I know the feeling

RoxClymer · 41-45, M

all social media can be, I usually stay far away from it, but there was some thing about yesterday 2 guys replied to 2different comments of mine and Both guys seemed to be going throu some Major Man-o-pause

jackjjackson · 61-69, M

Those types have no life’s and remain schoolyard bulky wannabes. Not worth your valuable time.

LadyJ · F

@jackjjackson No they are not,that's why i blocked them in the first place but sometimes grown women never actually mature

jackjjackson · 61-69, M

Regress in some cases. @LadyJ

LadyJ · F

@jackjjackson without a doubt

2cool4school · 46-50, F

I went to a single sex private college prep and this place is not at all like my HS experience so I’m probably not the best SWeeper to ask.

questionWeaver

Must be somebody I also have blocked

Sorry to hear you are getting that blow back

LadyJ · F

@questionWeaver Thanks hun..🤗

SW-User

You have always been good to me I don’t know you well I just like everyone who is nice to me

LadyJ · F

@SW-User Thankyou 🤗 i try to be nice to most people..you can't go wrong if you treat people as they treat you

Canuckle · 51-55, M

I won’t send you a picture of my mouse Ms LadyJ I promise Ms LadJ *smiles*

jackjjackson · 61-69, M

No personal accountability.

LadyJ · F

@jackjjackson meaning?

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LadyJ · F

@2cool4school And who was asking you?🤔

Jenny1234 · 51-55, F

these people have absolutely nothing to do with their lives

jackjjackson · 61-69, M

A number of users have not matured past those times.

LadyJ · F

@jackjjackson very true!

Carissa321

I wish people online could be nicer to one another.

jackjjackson · 61-69, M

Good morning ma’am. Have a great day. @Carissa321

SW-User

WTF?!!
Did that really happen?
Ugh

LadyJ · F

@SW-User yes hun it did

DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F

People must miss it evidently 😂

jackjjackson · 61-69, M

Good idea. Where do you think would be a good place in my house to have a locker installed? Do you wear pig tails? @DeluxedEdition

Fluffybull · F

Exactly! 👏👏👏❤️👌

LadyJ · F

@Fluffybull ❤❤❤❤

Fluffybull · F

@LadyJ And this is what you say to them.....😆😆👌
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romper69 · 51-55, M

I took it on the chin. ;)

LadyJ · F

@romper69 i didn't block you 🙄

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

Did that really happen?

SW-User

Really you have to ask 😲
🤦‍♂️

Fluffybull · F

I totally agree with you. 👍

Pfuzylogic · M

I can appreciate the challenge of having haters that block you and then beginning their campaign of untruths. Forbid that there is an appreciation post where they persist in their mudslinging!

PhaqueYou · M

Whatevvuh.

Thevy29 · 41-45, M

This place is NOT like highschool... Here if you block someone you don't ever have to see or here from them again.

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