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How do i recognize when people who try to brainwash me into accepting other people's abuse as normal.

I believed them in past but i now recognize their abuse as abuse. I am scared if i might go the same wrong route again.
Tumbleweed · F
When they say "Now look what you made me do" it's time to get out.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@Tumbleweed 100%, that's what they tried to convince me of !
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@Tumbleweed @Tumbleweed no idea why they do that though. They make excuses for other people's bad behaviors, maybe they are also like them in secret!
Tumbleweed · F
@sahi81 well at least you're able to recognize it, you're already a step ahead!!
Is there a way you can avoid these people and not deal with them?
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@SStarfish when i once didn't listen to them and called out the person's bad behaviors, they bullied me. I even called out on them, they did it more.

Later i calmly questioned their behvaiour... no reply.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@SStarfish yes i do avoid them all now
@sahi81 ok 😊 hopefully better people come along for you who don't give you crazy grief 😊
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
I'm beginning to think you are the problem. No offence.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@MarkPaul i didn't. I said my personal opinion on men. I never blamed u
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@MarkPaul did i abuse u or say anything mean to u just bcuz u r a man ?
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
@sahi81 Well no, not exactly...
HannahSky · F
You probably need to work on yourself first.
smiler2012 · 61-69
{@sahi81] 🤔 abuse whether mental physical or verbal is never justified and people are wrong too make you think it is
helenS · 36-40, F
In fact you define what is and isn't abuse.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@helenS i was kinda young and dunno what is right or wrong much back then
helenS · 36-40, F
@sahi81 Yeah but now you know right?
DownTheStreet · 56-60, M
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