How do i recognize when people who try to brainwash me into accepting other people's abuse as normal.

I believed them in past but i now recognize their abuse as abuse. I am scared if i might go the same wrong route again.

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YoMomma ·

Is there a way you can avoid these people and not deal with them?

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@YoMomma first i couldn't even recognize that they toxic... they be so nice on outside but... hurt a lot

YoMomma ·

@sahi81 it's that way sometimes.. they act nice initially and then turn ugly

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@YoMomma no, they don't turn ugly... it's more like they be too nice ... and when any person abuses me , they take their side and try to convince me that i am being so sensitive or it's normal.

YoMomma ·

@sahi81 oh.. i see

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@YoMomma when i once didn't listen to them and called out the person's bad behaviors, they bullied me. I even called out on them, they did it more.

Later i calmly questioned their behvaiour... no reply.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@YoMomma yes i do avoid them all now

YoMomma ·

@sahi81 ok 😊 hopefully better people come along for you who don't give you crazy grief 😊