How do i recognize when people who try to brainwash me into accepting other people's abuse as normal.

@MarkPaul how? I feel like u r just trying to blame me for everything

@sahi81 Well, I feel like you're trying to blame everyone else for everything... especially men. So, I find that obnoxious and insulting.

@MarkPaul yes, i can understand why it might look like i am blaming. But i believe i came across bad men or toxic environments/groups more... for some weird reasons.

It's hard to believe that good men exists after many repeated bad experiences.

@sahi81 Yeah, but you are using some isolated incidents and blaming ALL men. I don't like being blamed for things I didn't do and would never do.

@MarkPaul it might be isolated to u, not me... i had repeated bad experiences, most were bad

And also i never blamed u of anything i believe

@sahi81 Well, it seems like you are.

@MarkPaul i have to live in fear, which guy/man might do something to me when i am around men.

@MarkPaul i didn't. I said my personal opinion on men. I never blamed u

@MarkPaul did i abuse u or say anything mean to u just bcuz u r a man ?

@sahi81 Well no, not exactly...