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Why do adults feel the need to be dishonest?

What purpose does it serve to lie? Why are some adults completely unable to take accountability for their decisions and choices and say them?

I don't understand the purpose of lying.
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peterlee · M
It’s a matter of integrity and responsibility.

The more you open up, the more you take risks. You will get hurt. As painful as that is , it is the way to move forward. An act of selfless love.
peterlee · M
I’ve known people to lie in their CVs, that’s quite disturbing
If only I knew...
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
Punxi · F
@OogieBoogie That part
Magenta · F
Fear and protecting oneself, me thinks.

But who can say they have never lied?
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
Usually because you're protecting yourself, or you want something you don't think you can get without lying.
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
@FoxyGoddess Oh yeah I'm not defending lying and have little patience for it. But that's why people do.
FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F
@CountScrofula I didn't think you were. Just one of those things that the lying person doesn't seem to understand that they are putting people in positions of non-consent for their actions.
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In short, it's to maximise perceived benefits and minimise perceived costs.
They like making their lives easier even if its at the expense of others or themselves. Shit catches up to you eventually unless you're completely void of remorse.
Generally, for the purposes of avoiding a reality or consequences that they don’t want to face.
caccoon · 36-40
Because they still feel weak
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Did something happen?
FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F
@ThirstenHowl no lol I was watching court tv and the thought always comes to me when I do.
@FoxyGoddess ah I'm glad you were not the direct recipient of recent deception then
Selah ·
Have you never lied before lol
FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F
@Selah I wish I could say no.
smiler2012 · 61-69
@FoxyGoddess 🤔sadly the way people are they cannot take responsibility for there own action and need to cover up with lies
To err (lie, cheat, steal, backstab, ad infinitum) is human, after all.
FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F
@rinkydinkydoink That's great, if you follow the Bible. I treat it like fiction with a few good ideas. 🤷‍♀
@FoxyGoddess

There goes my "argument" - the Bible is all hooey to me, too.

EDIT - a good deal of it is hooey.
FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F
@rinkydinkydoink Sorry I ruined your build up. You can still post your argument. There are a few Christians who follow me. 😅
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@X6900ES
It is only Fraud when you are actually convicted.
And even then it doesn't matter. Just look at Donald Trump. His supporters are so proud of his lies, they treat his mugshot as his official portrait.
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