why do people not see messages sometimes?

I get phantom messages sometimes

Because there are two boxes. A regular inbox as well as a request box and only one gives alerts. 🤷🏾

I often miss the Requests. I just don't see them.

We do we just don’t wanna talk. Not necessarily to you but to other men.

Seeing and answering after two different things ...

They don’t want to talk, or they missed it, or they received too many messages and got frustrated, or they simply couldn’t care less.

You certainly haven’t replied to my message Matthew

I rarely see them

The site isn't built in a way that makes all messages easily seen

is that an ai photo

reputation can have an effect, it seems.

Coz they have life with important things to do.