Leme put it like this shes not stringing you along cuz theres no end to her string thats why borderlines are the way they are you can block her or not block her but in her heart youve been blocked from the get go
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@Therealsteve were victims plain and simple either regain your power or stay powerless thats your options but the relationship started on lies where is this gona go?
Therealsteve · 31-35, M
@TryingtoLava it wont go anywhere <3 She even said to me "stop quoting what I said" when i challenged her last night. Reality doesn't apply, only how she feels in the moment and she will try to contort reality to match her emotions in the moment. Sounds like a straight up quote defining bpd, but its her actions. Text book. I'm happy to not talk to her. Just the blocking part, eh.. i struggle. shes a member of my church. I like her. But is what I like real.
@Therealsteve no its not real so end it now
ImperialAerosolKidFromEP · 51-55, M
You should be blocking anyone you think you should be blocking. Normally I finish a sentence like that with " rightly or wrongly" but there is no wrongly here!
Therealsteve · 31-35, M
@ImperialAerosolKidFromEP The trauma bond. The "unfinished story", it's annoying.
Acheron · 41-45, M
Be impulsive and propose. You can fix her.
@Therealsteve then you know better
Acheron · 41-45, M
@Therealsteve Yes, I was making light. You don't need anyone to tell you what to do...your post says enough to show that.
Therealsteve · 31-35, M
@Acheron I just need encouragement, trauma bond and unlike many she didnt tell me she had it, in fact when i asked her if she had anything she said she didnt so i let myself get invested.
MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
The person meant for you wouldn't emotionally abuse you like that.
She’s a cop?
Therealsteve · 31-35, M
@Nunlover Borderline Personality Disorder
@Nunlover hahaha no wrong acronym silly
Allelse · 36-40, M
BPD? You don't want someone with that.
Vin53 · M
"stringed me along for two months"??
spjennifer · 61-69, T
How much have you "invested" 💵 in her so far?
BDP?
Therealsteve · 31-35, M
@AdmiralPrune Borderline Personality Disorder
@Therealsteve Nobody needs that. Unless she’s a ten fund somebody else.
Therealsteve · 31-35, M
@AdmiralPrune Thank you :)