Tell me I need to completely block this BPD girl who stringed me along for two months
Ridiculous that it's tough.
31-35, M
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Therealsteve · 31-35, M
@TryingtoLava Thank you, I'm stuck in "unfinished story" mode, because like clockwork she has this story about how she ran after this autistic guy who didnt care, and then another you know to triangulate, to make you want to be that guy, then it just gets pulled away and she's intermittently reinforced stuff to get you hooked. I know the literature but damn it's hard. I'm not talking to her, but this block is hard. I cant explain it. I just cant.
@Therealsteve i get it we were only friends but she did the same thing with our friendship she did the victim thing where there was a 'bad' bf i had to rescue her from but she would always emotionally neglect me on purpose i met her on EP actually i hada block her
Therealsteve · 31-35, M
@TryingtoLava Thank you, I needed that relating story. I was actually abused to the extreme by the games of a bpd last year. Came across this girl, seemingly normal, up for this future. Point blank asked her if she had anything. She said no. But kept bringing up ex's. Constantly. Always with the same theme. Strung me along on the idea we'd meet this month. This month comes, she splits. Telling me I "creeped her out", that I was "odd". I had been thinking for a while leading up to that "shes triangulating me, i feel as worthless as my exwbpd made me feel". She spent 2 hours trying to blame me for her decision to split on me to avoid the commitment of a meet. She just wanted someone online for attention. Damn. In my defense i didnt know she had it and she seems quite high functioning. I feel sick.
@Therealsteve were victims plain and simple either regain your power or stay powerless thats your options but the relationship started on lies where is this gona go?
Therealsteve · 31-35, M
@TryingtoLava it wont go anywhere <3 She even said to me "stop quoting what I said" when i challenged her last night. Reality doesn't apply, only how she feels in the moment and she will try to contort reality to match her emotions in the moment. Sounds like a straight up quote defining bpd, but its her actions. Text book. I'm happy to not talk to her. Just the blocking part, eh.. i struggle. shes a member of my church. I like her. But is what I like real.
@Therealsteve no its not real so end it now