Mystery or Being mysterious is not a turn on! When I ask you questions, I want clear answers!...

twistedrope · 26-30, M Best Comment

From what I understand, mystery is only allowed when you've achieved great things. Otherwise it's called being pretentious and it's very unattractive.

Subsumedpat · 36-40, M

I think some of the reluctance sometimes is people embarrassed by what gets to them and turns them on in some cases.

meJess · F

Many people assume that specific questions about them from a stranger online may be used for nefarious purposes

Carissimi · F

Maybe you are asking questions that should only be asked once you know a person well, or at least better. Maybe your questions are too personal, or intrusive for a fledgling friendship? I don’t know because I don’t know what questions you ask, but it’s good to do some self reflection to see if we are crossing a social boundary or not, regardless of being women.

Ferric67 · M

You'd hate me then
I don't openly share, especially with people that I'm not that familiar with
I need to build rapport with people that I open myself up to

Jenni · 51-55, F

I don't have a problem with questions. Part of being on here is to socialize in some way or other. I have been asked many things over the years and occasionally have gotten blocked, I guess, because the person asking didn't like my answer 🤣.
Why would anyone be on here and then get upset when approached? Just curious.

Convivial · 26-30, F

Many monologues only

goneNow6565

hmmmm maybe lol *while wearing a trench coat and a ski mask*

MarkPaul · 26-30, M

Yes, Ms. Rarexperience.

bob01

ask away

SW-User

Yeah, being coy only goes so far. And I feel that in this day and age especially, straightforwardness and frankness are traits that are sorely lacking.

SomeMichGuy · M

Women are naturally inquisitive

I'd say "people"...