Mystery or Being mysterious is not a turn on! When I ask you questions, I want clear answers!

From my experience on here, It is quite common amongst these 50 somethings down to the ones closer to their deathbeds. Women are naturally inquisitive, of course I would ask you questions you might or might not be comfortable with. If you are not ready to genuinely socialize, don't reach out and most especially don't respond when you're being reached out to. It's not rocket science!

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twistedrope · 26-30, M Best Comment

From what I understand, mystery is only allowed when you've achieved great things. Otherwise it's called being pretentious and it's very unattractive.

Rarexperience · 41-45, F

@twistedrope Couldn't have said it better.

Ferric67 · M

You'd hate me then
I don't openly share, especially with people that I'm not that familiar with
I need to build rapport with people that I open myself up to

meJess · F

Many people assume that specific questions about them from a stranger online may be used for nefarious purposes

Rarexperience · 41-45, F

@meJess @meJess I guess that's one of the reasons for the reluctance.

Jenni · 51-55, F

I don't have a problem with questions. Part of being on here is to socialize in some way or other. I have been asked many things over the years and occasionally have gotten blocked, I guess, because the person asking didn't like my answer 🤣.
Why would anyone be on here and then get upset when approached? Just curious.

Rarexperience · 41-45, F

@Jenni Beats me. This is a Social medium, being social involves conversations, conversations involves questions and answers. I echo your thoughts by asking too; Why would anyone be on here and then get upset when approached?🤷🏻

Carissimi · F

Maybe you are asking questions that should only be asked once you know a person well, or at least better. Maybe your questions are too personal, or intrusive for a fledgling friendship? I don’t know because I don’t know what questions you ask, but it’s good to do some self reflection to see if we are crossing a social boundary or not, regardless of being women.

Rarexperience · 41-45, F

@Carissimi Trust me, they are pretty basic questions you'd ask at the beginning of a conversation. I am pretty self aware not to be intrusive, just as I wouldn't want anyone doing the same to me.