Why are you still single?

@SilentObZerver No but I’ve not found a suitable replacement

@Anniedlr what makes one a suitable replacement?

@SilentObZerver I’ll know when I find him

@ShenaniganF00die and remember to include photo of the boat

@ShenaniganF00die Why?

@OlderSometimesWiser Are you Appendicitis?

@SilentObZerver

@Jeephikelove that means every guy you've ever met gives you BS?

@SW-User

We will always need others and it is okay. I am relying on you right now in a way. It is inevitable no matter how detached we tend to be.

When it comes to how I see dependency, I am very much a realist, struggling with an ego shaped by abandonment. It is difficult to accept help when you grew up with wolves and can't trust others to see you as anything other than their next meal.

I met good people I could/can count on later in life and had to learn to bond. I wasn't born with a good healthy heart and though I am doing great and lead an active life, I will eventually need more help and company to keep the same life style. And I should be more open to the care I am offered by loved ones.

It is smart to accept one's limitations with grace and focus on better ways to experience existence than the conventional. We all are here just trying to find peaceful journeys that grant us purpose. Never look down on your own. When we let others help us too, we are helping them just as much. It's mutual growth.

@Miram You are such a wise soul Miram, i rely on you in these kinds of instances for a cleansing kind of perspective on things, thank you, and i hope we can live through all our trials together via SW for as long as possible. Bless you ♥️

@SW-User I love you 🤍

@AnonymousJSS picky but you easily let go?

@SilentObZerver Yeah

@ABCDEF7

@Bleak Yes, maybe it was for me to have focus on spirituality in my life with renunciation of the worldly things.

@Cat2001 how complicated?

@SilentObZerver very

@Bexsy You are too beautiful to be alone

@LemonWorld but why are you still indoors....just go out with him then

@RedGrizzly hmmm ....interesting!

Is it the case you fear love because you think it wont be reciprocated?

@SilentObZerver not necessarily because of reciprocation. Even when people I generally like, normally probably would date, and they make it known I caught their eye...I freak out. Not all giddy but like I saw Jason Voorhees out my window. My brain literally said, "one person screwed up your life, lied to you for four years, tried to slander you in public...so anyone so much gives you a wink. Run!" Yeah, I'll get butterfly feelings maybe but I can go back into survival mode really quick from that. I'm no good for it.

Plus, I'm physically unwell and if I somehow managed to have a healthy relationship...I couldn't put that on someone else.

@Repete if the first one was great why did you move to the second one?

@SilentObZerver she has passed away, but before that we had to separate because of our daughter ,long story I’ve been through on her years ago.

@twistedrope interesting

@SilentObZerver Is it really? I think its just how it is.

@zonavar68 I love that song.

@mindstruggle you work a lot and you dont know where to meet people?

@SilentObZerver
Yep. ☺️

@MaryDreamilton
You have kids?

@SilentObZerver No, I haven't. I'm one of four sisters and the only one out of the four of us who never had any kids. All my nieces and nephews are adults now, and my oldest niece is a mother-of-four herself.

@Shadyglow why would you ask?

So i can pop the question

@PoeticPlay good good

@RAD10HEAD Size Doesn’t matter to most women.....

@Onestarlitnight Hardly. Good to see you again. 🤗