does sex get better with age?

Needed it in late teens early 20s and boy was it fun!

I loved it in my mid 20s.

I took some time out as I approached my 30s,

mid 30s and it's been a mixed bag, 1st pregnancy allowed for a really enjoyable bond with my partner.

After baby was born he started rejecting me, which was odd.

We managed to go again to create another life but the 2nd pregnancy well it's not happening.

I'm sure I'll be able to reflect on this later on in life with a better understanding.

Depends on the person and situation. Many marriages or couples who are together for a long time get into ruts, habits, even grow distant...but the flip side is some people learn more about pleasure, about pleasing a partner, about how men and wone differ, about their own pleasure and body. For me, I was in a long-term marriage that had difficulties (mostly her health) the last ten years, and now have learned tantra and am having the best sex of my life, slowing down, including the whole body, learning to move sexual energy and experience full-body orgasms, learning what a partner likes, communicating, not chasing a quick finish and much more!!!

For me it's the best with my bf bcs of how good our communication is and how much into him I am physically/emotionally. I've been with him since my early 20s , I'm now 28 ,so I think it's about the person. Maybe in time that will change

I believe it can, but there are so many factors at play. Sex for me was not a thing until my mid-20's and now after two failed relationships I've chosen to stay single for 8 years so the thing called 'sex' is like a foreign concept fading out of memory because I still don't understand how it fits into the wider subject of adult romantic/imtimate relationships.

I'm not neuro-typical so think differently to most about how intimacy and relationships work. I'm 57 now and I wouldn't know how to involve sex in any sort of relationship should it be possible to find someone who understands me.

Sometimes
As you get older you get into sexless marriages and for some they go bi.. They find that bi sex is better than regular sex. I have found that many mm love my sex better then they had gotten from their wifes🥰

The hormones that drive us in our younger years fall off over time so things become more challenging. Providing you still have a willing partner it can still be fulfilling though as one can use massage techniques witg lite touching to stimulate erogenous zones that might have been missed when younger.

I am thinking that is depending on the people and situation.
Prior to my 2nd marriage, with my last 2 GF's, the sex was amazing and frequent.
Unfortunately not the same with my wife though.

One other thing - sexual 'performance' from a physical perspective at age 40+ is not the same as it might have been at age 20+, but then again life experience at age 40+ is double that of someone age 20+, so there are trade-off's.

As a 50+ guy I know my 'performance' abilities are now very low, but they always basically were even when I was in my 20's and 30's since sex and dating were mostly foreign concepts then and still are today.

An orgasm wrecks me for at least 12 hours, whereas woman in their 40's and 50's still claim they can be multi-orgasmic and don't need any recovery time. Probably why more women become bi/lesbian in 40+ maturity and/or seek younger men (perceived to be more virile and better 'performers') in their teens, 20's and 30's.

It can. There’s a lot to be said for not having to worry about pregnancy.

Everything about sex depends on the female partners.

Guys really shouldn't force themselves until the females are ready. Yet that may not help either. Readiness depends on willingness as well.

It got better for us as we tried new things until our 40's. No improvement since then. Quality and quantity declined starting in our 60's.

Yes, at least it did for us... However, both partners have to want it to get better, and BOTH partners have to be unselfish, for this to happen.

Idk. Sex has always been good for me. So i guess that would depend on your partner. I do think it is better with someone that you are in love with.

I don’t think so. It was great in our twenties and thirties. Now in our forties it sucks. Neither of us have the drive, especially her. Now we’re like roommates.

Absolutely

It did for us.

I think it's often more infrequent ...🤔

Practice makes perfect.

Yes if it's with the right person

No. You learn by the time you're twenty, best if it's not on the late side, and then by thirty you're fading fast. That's everyone.
People hate life and criminalized teen sexuality out of spite

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Worse.

It can.

Depends on whom you're having it with.

it gets harder to find,

NO the women get older. pussy gets larger. harder to find.