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does sex get better with age?

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Paulsmile · 70-79
O wow so luv
wetncthru · F
If one chooses well = yes!!!
Megan82 · F
@wetncthru women get it guys are sometimes surprised
wetncthru · F
@Megan82 AGREED!
@Megan82 when your messy you know you had a good time
itsnotme2 · 46-50, M
yes it does
lissah · 36-40, F
Sex is always good
@lissah Ok. Actually, I used to think that. Don’t now. What about rape? What about pedophilia? What about abductions and sex slavery? What about prostitution: both male and female and trans? What about STDs?, etc.

Sex is great. Sex is fun. Sex is healthy, both mentally and physically. But… So many exceptions, as listed above.
6XXX969 · 31-35, M
Yes, can find new and exciting ways to pleasure each other
MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M
If you are with the right person
496sbc · 41-45, M
would u msg me id like that
Shytoshow · 61-69, M
Yez im living proof loooooooooool
vetguy1991 · 56-60, M
Mine hasn't yet
It depends how old you are ?
Ben1000 · 41-45, M
I definitely don’t want it as much as I did in my late teens and 20s.
may get better. but it gets harder to find.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@Megan82 Women have always had a much easier time getting sex. 8-)
Megan82 · F
@zonavar68 That is a fact we are the defenders of our gate Hahahah
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@Megan82 This is how I summarise the dichotomy of sex between the sexes:

Sex for women - who will I let have sex with me tonight.

Sex for men - who will let me have sex with them tonight.
the older you get harder to find.
Idk I’m a virgin at 23
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@Countrygurl18 Nothing wrong with that. I was a virgin until my mid-20's too.
th3r0n · 41-45, M
@Countrygurl18 that's such a beautiful thing
Richard1986 · 36-40, M
How old are you Megan?
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
Needed it in late teens early 20s and boy was it fun!

I loved it in my mid 20s.

I took some time out as I approached my 30s,

mid 30s and it's been a mixed bag, 1st pregnancy allowed for a really enjoyable bond with my partner.

After baby was born he started rejecting me, which was odd.

We managed to go again to create another life but the 2nd pregnancy well it's not happening.

I'm sure I'll be able to reflect on this later on in life with a better understanding.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@Mellowgirl Sorry to hear your partner started rejecting you.

Sex is just 'thing' and we can live quite fine without 'things'.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
@zonavar68 disagree it part of the bond and maintaining a bond in a relationship. When that goes a lot of the time so do the other things.
Megan82 · F
@Mellowgirl Awww so sorry you have your badies he should appreciate all you are and all you do!!
Nope!

It really gets worse as you begin to really age (like me: early 70s): lack of stamina, erection problems, other health problems! Fuck as much as you can with whoever is willing when you are still healthier and more attractive!

Tempis fugit !
It can. There’s a lot to be said for not having to worry about pregnancy.
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@bijouxbroussard you are a mere child!
@samueltyler2 My friend ! 🤗
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@bijouxbroussard my beautiful friend.
Sometimes
As you get older you get into sexless marriages and for some they go bi.. They find that bi sex is better than regular sex. I have found that many mm love my sex better then they had gotten from their wifes🥰
@SarawithouttheH
@Submissiveiendencies If
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@SarawithouttheH L❤ve t❤ chat❤
It depends on a lot of factors, really. Was there a deep connection from the very beginning, or was it a superficial attraction just based on looks?
Docdon23 · M
Depends on the person and situation. Many marriages or couples who are together for a long time get into ruts, habits, even grow distant...but the flip side is some people learn more about pleasure, about pleasing a partner, about how men and women differ, about their own pleasure and body. For me, I was in a long-term marriage that had difficulties (mostly her health) the last ten years, and now have learned tantra and am having the best sex of my life, slowing down, including the whole body, learning to move sexual energy and experience full-body orgasms, learning what a partner likes, communicating, not chasing a quick finish and much more!!!
Richard1986 · 36-40, M
I'm not sure if it does
Up to a certain point yes it gets better and then...suddenly...it ends
@istillhaveanameitsrick Totally agree, sir !
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@istillhaveanameitsrick it also ends when women no longer think you can satisfy their Randy post menopausal desires enough so they open their black book to move to plan B or C or D.
Shytoshow · 61-69, M
Im 62 and in no rush whatsoever 😂😂😂
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
Everything about sex depends on the female partners.

Guys really shouldn't force themselves until the females are ready. Yet that may not help either. Readiness depends on willingness as well.
lissah · 36-40, F
Idk. Sex has always been good for me. So i guess that would depend on your partner. I do think it is better with someone that you are in love with.
Megan82 · F
@lissah sometimes something or somebody new feel so exciting LOL
Convivial · 26-30, F
I think it's often more infrequent ...🤔
Convivial · 26-30, F
@zonavar68 that's easy to answer... It's a reminder to read before I hit send 🤣
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@Convivial I did some research and there really is a product called 'gold water'. It's water 'infused' with gold particles. Yuk.

https://www.oroooro.com/product-page/gold-water-250-ml
Convivial · 26-30, F
@zonavar68 thanks for that...I think lol... I'll stick with tap water and ask the free pfoas 🤗
th3r0n · 41-45, M
I would say it would, I learned a lot more about biology and intimate things even though I had decided to never have sex again until getting married, at this point pleasuring a woman strongly with just a full body massage, some special techniques called trigger points applied to the right place, and a skillful clitoral massage are more than enough to get them going crazy, whenever I do get married the wife will lose her mind, I'll be sure of it
@th3r0n What in the world are you waiting for, really!? You only live once! You are now past your prime. You know hsve slready lived hslf your life! Wske up!
BeachGirl47 · 26-30, F
Id like to think it does.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
I believe it can, but there are so many factors at play. Sex for me was not a thing until my mid-20's and now after two failed relationships I've chosen to stay single for 8 years so the thing called 'sex' is like a foreign concept fading out of memory because I still don't understand how it fits into the wider subject of adult romantic/imtimate relationships.

I'm not neuro-typical so think differently to most about how intimacy and relationships work. I'm 57 now and I wouldn't know how to involve sex in any sort of relationship should it be possible to find someone who understands me.
Markymark777 · 46-50, M
I don’t think so. It was great in our twenties and thirties. Now in our forties it sucks. Neither of us have the drive, especially her. Now we’re like roommates.
For me it's the best with my bf bcs of how good our communication is and how much into him I am physically/emotionally. I've been with him since my early 20s , I'm now 28 ,so I think it's about the person. Maybe in time that will change
Megan82 · F
@PepsiColaP I hope not I hope all you hungers and desires grow together!
exexec · 70-79, C
It got better for us as we tried new things until our 40's. No improvement since then. Quality and quantity declined starting in our 60's.
Northerner · 70-79, M
@exexec Same for us.
SW-User
Yes, at least it did for us... However, both partners have to want it to get better, and BOTH partners have to be unselfish, for this to happen.
WolfGirlwh0r3 · 36-40, T
Wouldnt have a clue, aint having any
Fullmetal · M
It does! Best 10 minutes of my life, a hour and 10 minutes at Daylight Saving Time!
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
No fear of pregnancy after menopause, but also less natural lubrication.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
One other thing - sexual 'performance' from a physical perspective at age 40+ is not the same as it might have been at age 20+, but then again life experience at age 40+ is double that of someone age 20+, so there are trade-off's.

As a 50+ guy I know my 'performance' abilities are now very low, but they always basically were even when I was in my 20's and 30's since sex and dating were mostly foreign concepts then and still are today.

An orgasm wrecks me for at least 12 hours, whereas woman in their 40's and 50's still claim they can be multi-orgasmic and don't need any recovery time. Probably why more women become bi/lesbian in 40+ maturity and/or seek younger men (perceived to be more virile and better 'performers') in their teens, 20's and 30's.
Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
The hormones that drive us in our younger years fall off over time so things become more challenging. Providing you still have a willing partner it can still be fulfilling though as one can use massage techniques witg lite touching to stimulate erogenous zones that might have been missed when younger.
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
As one who is getting older…. It tends to.
Cigarguys · 41-45, C
Yes if it's with the right person
MonsterGuyX · 56-60, M
In my experience, yes it does.
Teslin · M
I am thinking that is depending on the people and situation.
Prior to my 2nd marriage, with my last 2 GF's, the sex was amazing and frequent.
Unfortunately not the same with my wife though.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
@Teslin sex with my second ex was basically one way. For her procreation benefit. That's left me feeling that sex is not really naturally attractive as a true bonding agent.
@zonavar68 That is very sad, Sex should be fun
Teslin · M
jackson55 · M
Practice makes perfect.
it gets harder to find,
Northerner · 70-79, M
It did for us.
chuck7882 · 61-69, M
Cyclist · 46-50, M
If it does it’s because you get more experience and learn more things. Plus, guys can last longer.

 
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