Have you ever been blanked?
It is a nasty psychological weapon, certainly not an act of love.
The best response is to give that person space, then move on.
I’ve been blanked three times in my life.
Once on a school holiday at eighteen. A girl blanked me for two weeks, as if I not exist. I just thought her odd, ignored her and moved on.
A second was at work. This time the person ignored me at lunch, I asked a friend why. She said she had issues. I just got on with my work. It did not affect me, too much to do. I moved on.
Once on here. Blocked then talked about as if I did not exist and never have interacted. That tells me a lot about the other person, more than words on a screen ever did. The response as always, make new friends, don’t look back and move on.
The best response is to give that person space, then move on.
I’ve been blanked three times in my life.
Once on a school holiday at eighteen. A girl blanked me for two weeks, as if I not exist. I just thought her odd, ignored her and moved on.
A second was at work. This time the person ignored me at lunch, I asked a friend why. She said she had issues. I just got on with my work. It did not affect me, too much to do. I moved on.
Once on here. Blocked then talked about as if I did not exist and never have interacted. That tells me a lot about the other person, more than words on a screen ever did. The response as always, make new friends, don’t look back and move on.
