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Toxic traits...

What would you say is your toxic trait? 🤔
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SW-User
I shut down when my feelings are not respected . I become aloof and dismissive towards that person ..
Ferric67 · M
@SW-User I can be like this too
SatanBurger · 36-40, FVIP
I'm sometimes too suspicious of people which is due to trauma but still, have to find a balance so I'm not using it as an excuse. A lot of what I feel about people, at least in my opinion, is true to an extent but being a full on pessimist is also a losing attitude that results in analysis paralysis and distrust of the self. That's kind of a losing war I think. I been trying to work on it by knowing that changing my thought patterns means a whole bunch.

I also have an anxious avoidant attachment style in real life so pretty much this means that we want to be loved but we'll always keep you at arm's length while having semi normal lives. I'll feel like I can trust someone and then something will take over where I get this intense fear and then while I won't push them away exactly, I'll go completely dark.
Ducky · 31-35, F
I’m pretty bitter and distrustful. I’m also very intolerant of foolish and irrational behavior.
@Ducky but rationality can be subjective
Ducky · 31-35, F
@PepsiColaP Not when you’re a logical person.
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@Ducky I know what bitterness feels like.. do you try to work on it?
Whodunnit · M
I'm just too perfect
@Whodunnit There ya go!
SW-User
I tend to push people away or get too attached to them, it creates conflict to myself or them
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Anger when stressed in some situations
Easily frustrated/angered by things that shouldn't bring up such reaction
Terrible at comforting someone in distress
Lack of communication even with those I care about
Cynicism and negative thinking
Arisxo · 26-30, F
@CrazyMusicLover i can related to some of these
SW-User
I am insecure.....but am working hard to get it in check!!
Arisxo · 26-30, F
@SW-User you've got this!
SW-User
@Arisxo thank you so much for that!! It means a lot!! 🤗
I have many ,insecurity is one
AuRevoir · 36-40, M
😷 Everything..
Purplehaze78 · 46-50, F
I shut down without a warning... 😁
SW-User
my penchant for zionism and many stds
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@SW-User why? Can you pinpoint the reason for why you like gross things?
SW-User
@MartinTheFirst you don't actually think im being serious? 🤔
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
@SW-User ooooh.. i get it 👀 haha of course not, of course i knew hehe
sodaa ·
everything about me is toxic
Strongtea · 22-25, M
I always compare myself to other people and get jealous.
Arisxo · 26-30, F
@Strongtea ive done this 😅
Iwantyourhotwife · 22-25
I am boldly unfiltered cuz I think being real is more genuine than faking anything
Crazymatt · 31-35, M
Snapchatting randoms lol
Arisxo · 26-30, F
@Crazymatt lol i havent used snapchat in so long, I lost track of how long 🤣
Crazymatt · 31-35, M
@Arisxo its dangerous lol...way to easy to meet loads of people
SW-User
I become too attached and needy
Arisxo · 26-30, F
@SW-User i can relate!
I speak my mind wayyyy too fast. 😢
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
I want things to happen my way, I'm open for negotiation but i have to be satisfied with the deal.
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
Quick temper
thepreposterouspanda · 36-40, M
I give up too easily.
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
Low self esteem
SW-User
Impulsive, self centered, quick to anger
Ferric67 · M
@SW-User all that gets negated because you are still awesome
SW-User
@Ferric67 ahh. And you are a sweetheart.
SW-User
Mostly toxic to myself
Arisxo · 26-30, F
@SW-User its hard to not be, sometimes
Jackaloftheazuresand · 26-30, M
emotional vampire
Dino11 · M
Incorrigible and Insubordinate
I internalise everything to the point of self torture and driving myself insane. I feel too much or nothing at all.
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SW-User
People pleaser.. toxic to myself
Holding grudges.
Ferric67 · M
@bijouxbroussard true bijoux. Personally, I've never been angry at anyone beyond two minutes. I'm quick to forgive and let go.
@Ferric67 That’s healthier. Note, I did list mine as a "toxic" trait.
Ferric67 · M
@bijouxbroussard no worries, I've listed my toxic trait as being a scutch. Outside of the tri state area, nobody knows what a scutch is.
ViciDraco · 41-45, M
Procrastination/laziness.
Arisxo · 26-30, F
@ViciDraco hate this about myself!
Ferric67 · M
I am not toxic, but I am a scutch
Arisxo · 26-30, F
@Ferric67 scutch? 🤔
Ferric67 · M
@Arisxo it's a NY thing
caccoon · 36-40
Overly sensitive and everything that encompasses.

I'm distrustful. I hold grudges. I am hurt easily. I don't take a lot of chances.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
Not known for suffering fools.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I have low self esteem that relates back to my childhood
Arisxo · 26-30, F
@iamonfire696 hugs x
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Arisxo thank you 💗
controlling, possessive, jealous, and much more.
Arisxo · 26-30, F
@deathfairy with everyone or significant other?

 
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