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SatanBurger 路 36-40, F
I'm sometimes too suspicious of people which is due to trauma but still, have to find a balance so I'm not using it as an excuse. A lot of what I feel about people, at least in my opinion, is true to an extent but being a full on pessimist is also a losing attitude that results in analysis paralysis and distrust of the self. That's kind of a losing war I think. I been trying to work on it by knowing that changing my thought patterns means a whole bunch.
I also have an anxious avoidant attachment style in real life so pretty much this means that we want to be loved but we'll always keep you at arm's length while having semi normal lives. I'll feel like I can trust someone and then something will take over where I get this intense fear and then while I won't push them away exactly, I'll go completely dark.
I also have an anxious avoidant attachment style in real life so pretty much this means that we want to be loved but we'll always keep you at arm's length while having semi normal lives. I'll feel like I can trust someone and then something will take over where I get this intense fear and then while I won't push them away exactly, I'll go completely dark.
