BillyMack · 46-50, M
If you can learn from your mistakes that’s always a start. Especially when others feelings and emotions are involved.
Learn to say I’m sorry when it’s warranted and not just to be a people pleaser.
Be more accountable to your priorities and those who matter and depend on you.
Forgive. Both others and especially yourself. That latter part is what haunts you longer than needed.
Try to find the joy in things. In moments by yourself. In conversation with others.
Be good to your pets and animals in general.
Eat for fuel and exercise not for aesthetics but for health.
Be more patient.
Ok this turned out to be a letter to myself. So thank you for whomever asked this question.
Learn to say I’m sorry when it’s warranted and not just to be a people pleaser.
Be more accountable to your priorities and those who matter and depend on you.
Forgive. Both others and especially yourself. That latter part is what haunts you longer than needed.
Try to find the joy in things. In moments by yourself. In conversation with others.
Be good to your pets and animals in general.
Eat for fuel and exercise not for aesthetics but for health.
Be more patient.
Ok this turned out to be a letter to myself. So thank you for whomever asked this question.
OogieBoogie · F
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- Not expect happiness to be lasting. Its an emotion. Emotions come and go. Let them.
- always put some time aside for your own interests, and some for your relationship on a regular basis. Both need attention and care. Like a plant, if you dont water them - they wont grow and be healthy.
- Expext change. Change is inevitable. Even goals can change. Learn to be flexible. Accept it. Sometimes the worst things can push you to do amazing things.
- Dont ever expect that your actions or efforts will ever change somebody else.
- Realize that gifts are exactly that, Gifts: Something you give out of love expecting nothing back. So don't ecpect, (if you do stuff for people, or give them things), that they 'owe' you.
It only leads to resentment.
- Dont allow others to dictate your feelings. Your feelings are your own. Own them and be in control of them.
If someone makes you feel bad, its only you giving them the power to do so.
The last i leave to Lao Tzu:
- Not expect happiness to be lasting. Its an emotion. Emotions come and go. Let them.
- always put some time aside for your own interests, and some for your relationship on a regular basis. Both need attention and care. Like a plant, if you dont water them - they wont grow and be healthy.
- Expext change. Change is inevitable. Even goals can change. Learn to be flexible. Accept it. Sometimes the worst things can push you to do amazing things.
- Dont ever expect that your actions or efforts will ever change somebody else.
- Realize that gifts are exactly that, Gifts: Something you give out of love expecting nothing back. So don't ecpect, (if you do stuff for people, or give them things), that they 'owe' you.
It only leads to resentment.
- Dont allow others to dictate your feelings. Your feelings are your own. Own them and be in control of them.
If someone makes you feel bad, its only you giving them the power to do so.
The last i leave to Lao Tzu:
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
I try to realize I don't have to "win" everything and just walk away.
I have no obligation to repeat gossip and I don't have to join in.
Don't give into group mentality if someone is bullying someone stick up for them.
I have no obligation to repeat gossip and I don't have to join in.
Don't give into group mentality if someone is bullying someone stick up for them.
FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
Learn what emotional intelligence is and work to make it a part of your life.
Instead of assuming malice or combativeness, assume ignorance or that it is a character flaw, then act accordingly.
Ask questions to assess what you think you understood is what you understood before simply assuming you understood.
Accept the negatove traits you have and find ways to make them a positive part of your life instead of a toxic part.
Instead of assuming malice or combativeness, assume ignorance or that it is a character flaw, then act accordingly.
Ask questions to assess what you think you understood is what you understood before simply assuming you understood.
Accept the negatove traits you have and find ways to make them a positive part of your life instead of a toxic part.
dragonfly46 · F
Gratitude
wackidywack · 26-30
reflect
gregloa · 61-69, M
Love
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
Keep their word.
Be understanding about not understanding everything.
Acts of kindness and forgiveness.
Be understanding about not understanding everything.
Acts of kindness and forgiveness.
BillyMack · 46-50, M
@ScreamingFox that second one is tough for me I think. I’m a fixer and I know that isn’t helpful at times.
YMITheWayIM · 46-50, M
Learn
YoMomma ·
Care
kittee · 22-25
leave all social media, and go outside and make friedns and do things
Ferric67 · M
very simple answer
treat others better
treat others better
Accept people who are different than you instead of searching for news that makes you afraid of them.
SlippingAway · 46-50, F
Be kind, be less judgmental
DareToSayIT · 31-35, M
The realization that not everything is about them.
Shybutwilling2bfriends · 61-69
Grow up
hunkalove · 70-79, M
Buy me a car.
AngelaR80 · 41-45, F
Leave your husband. Working for me anyways.
BeJeweled · 61-69, F
Don't lie, use people or cheat.
TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 46-50, MVIP
acpguy · C
Stop watching, listening and reading the fake news put out by liberals / socialists brainwashing people. Next get a job and work for a living.
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