Am I lazy?I have reached a point in career where i earn decently and have more scope for growth and learning and improving my designation. I however feel lethargic to do anything but at the same time, looking at my colleagues accomplishments, i feel i should...See More »
You would think by now...Not because I've been through some really hard situations situations no human should ever go through, but my heart would be hardened by this and I'd be lying if I said in some ways it hasn't however, no matter how many times I've been done dirty I've...See More »
I could be a better person if I loved myself moreIn my mind I keep thinking I’m a horrible and worthless person, but I think maybe that thought process is the reason I let myself down in the first place. I could be calmer and kinder and more patient for example, if I believed for a second that I w...See More »
How do you heal from narcissistic abuse and become a normal person?I was raised like a servant to my dad. My mom taught me how to be incompetent. Growing up I have anxiety, no confidence in myself, depression, and lack of social skills. I feel so damaged beyond repair in my early 30s now. I have nothing going for...See More »
OverthinkingMy overthinking has gotten so bad it has even changed me as e person. It killed my happiness but in the end I was always right. It has also made me insecure about the people I love.i overthink about the future thinking I won't be able to make it. I...See More »
Have you instantly liked a person? ( not talking about love at first sight )You meet a person and inside....I LIKE this person!!
An impossible wishThere is this door I want to step into. I mean, I could, probably. But I don't know if I'll be let in with welcome and gladness, or ... I haven't knocked for a long time now. I got tired knocking. But the person inside basically yelled at me to say...See More »
My Therapist shot me straight the other day. “You were never valued or respected as a child, let alone how to value or respect another person past what they can do for you. You never had a safe person, so you don’t know how to be one, yet.”
Who is the Best Person that you know and why?My mom is the best person that I really know well. You might say that I am biased but I know so many people who would agree with me that are also not her children. Sometimes I'm even a bit jealous that so many random people consider her as a mother...See More »
Be the type of person that no matter where you go or where you are, you always add value to the lives of those around you.
I just want to make the world a better placeI have a dream that one day all nations kindreds Will stand together united. I want to help restore faith in humanity. I guess the person to start with is myself. In order to make an impact I must be the best. One day the sunshine, the wounded will...See More »
Do you think you are a natural counsellor, the wealth of your experience, or do you need to train to assist another person?
Do you think you attract a certain type of person that is unhealthy for you? If so why do you think that is?I am a cheater and creep magnet. I take the blame, because I am the one with bad tastes clearly as this isn't my first rodeo with this type. Just trying to figure out why I keep doing this.
Realizing that my past experiences have made me an extremely paranoid personAnd I always think of the worst possibility in every situation and react accordingly. If I don't let out the reaction I get an anxiety attack. If I'm in a situation that I can't control, I get an anxiety attack. Most situations involve my...See More »