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Need advice and confused

Hello. I want to tell some story of mine and ask for advice.

I'm confused, there's this guy, let's call him Adam. We've known each other for almost 5 years. We met during the entrance exams for the same university, and our first meeting was at the testing center. The plot twist is that he actually went to the same high school as me, but we never met or knew each other at school.

Time passed, and we went to different universities. We remained casual friends, but even after 5 years now, from these 5 years of friendship, we haven't gotten close, we just keep in touch. And he a few times asked me out, and I always refused 😂
And lately, he asked me to hang out with him again, even though I rarely reply to his messages and doesn't he understand that from the first time he asked me out 4 years ago, I always refused him😭 and now I don't know what else to reply. I honestly don't want to or am not ready yet. What should I reply?
I've rejected him many times
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Fukfacewillie · 56-60, M
You should tell him.
Panamared · 70-79, M
Follow your instincts
RachelLia2003 · 22-25, F
just go outside together. u dont have to fack him. just talk
plankter979 · 51-55, M
Do you like him?
Bluebell1 · 26-30, F
@plankter979 just as friend, he already know my mom, and they talked a bit.
romell · 51-55, M
Nothing difficult but needs to be handled carefully n with maturity ..could go for a coffee n tell him you are a fine friend n I would not like to break this if you keep insisting on a date ..the end
Crys76 · 46-50, M
You set up a meeting with him and don't go
He won't want another meeting😀
Bluebell1 · 26-30, F
@Crys76 nice idea 😭😂
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
Maybe just a friendship thing, I can't see that meeting up can do much harm.nJust be honest with him about what you want.
Bluebell1 · 26-30, F
@PatientlyWaiting25 yea i hope so. But its getting weird
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
@Bluebell1 if it makes you feel uncomfortable, probably best to distance yourself.
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Bluebell1 · 26-30, F
@jshm2 just because i refused a man to hang out, it makes me a shitty person?
Bruh he keep askin me to go out after years, if it just friends why he insist on keep goin? Im busy i got priority i already told him.
Am i shitty?!
Just tell him that you're not looking for any relationships just yet. It's okay to have your priorities focused on different areas of your life and honesty is never a bad thing... you don't have to try to remember any lies you might tell him otherwise.
Bluebell1 · 26-30, F
@HootyTheNightOwl yes yes im trying to and i will tell him.. Again
Munumbis · 46-50, M
Foid user, 5 sentances in and "there's this guy".
You don't have to say anything. He should understand by now that you're not interested like that.
Bluebell1 · 26-30, F
@SinlessOnslaught thats what i meant, but he keep goin after years
@Bluebell1 Don't say anything

 
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