Need advice

I can explain one thing.


When a son or daughter brings a girl or boy friend into the family dynamic, the rest of the family often considers that newcomer as part of the family. When you see him, you see her. The family members develop their own relationship with her/him.

When the romantic relationship ends because one partner or both can't see a future, the other family members still have that relationship. It doesn't mean they wish the couple would marry and it doesn't mean they don't like you.

Develop your own relationship with them and try not to feel jealous or insecure.

He's with you, not her.

Relationships should make you feel good not second guess yourself. You're not toxic.

It is probably a pause moment tbh. You can PM me if you want to chat about it

This one is difficult because some people still love their exe's, but it doesn't mean they will cheat on you with them. they call them exe's for a reason. 😇

I wish exclusivity and transparency were still valued. Maybe raise your concerns about boundaries. I hope things stay okay between you as a couple.

you aren't toxic. you just have low self esteem. Block the current bf. he is not showing you respect. when you walk away you will respect yourself and do better

You are a dream doormat for a cheater. You know what he's doing......and you still don't do anything about it. He has his cake and he can eat it too...........and you get crumbs.

You are allowing all your worst fears to happen right now. Only you can change it by changing you….you can’t change or control others

If you told the guy that talking to his exes makes you uncomfortable and he still does it, you’re not toxic.

Yes, you are toxic and in addition, I am obligated to issue this 📢 High Maintenance Warning.

Start looking for a new bf. If he's talking to his ex, you can talk to new dudes

just relax, nothing wrong with talking 😉