Need advice

Hi i wanna ask am i toxic?..
My boyfriend who i been dating for 5 months still talks to 2 of his exs and lately hes talking to one ex who he had been with for 2 years alot right now.. i keep geting a heavy feeling that he still has feelings for her..
Its just in my past relationships ive always got cheated on...
I literally blocked all my exs when we firsted dated..
What makes me sad about it is that his entire family is friends with that ex..
His family treats me nice and everything..
Im just really overthinking right now..
I dont have any females or male friends
Im only 20..

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Mamapolo2016 · F

I can explain one thing.

What makes me sad about it is that his entire family is friends with that ex..

When a son or daughter brings a girl or boy friend into the family dynamic, the rest of the family often considers that newcomer as part of the family. When you see him, you see her. The family members develop their own relationship with her/him.

When the romantic relationship ends because one partner or both can't see a future, the other family members still have that relationship. It doesn't mean they wish the couple would marry and it doesn't mean they don't like you.

Develop your own relationship with them and try not to feel jealous or insecure.

He's with you, not her.

PhilDeep · 51-55, M

@Mamapolo2016 Well said!