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I had to pay half of the hotel

I been with my boyfriend for 9 months now.He usually pays for everything,but the other day he asked me to pay half of the hotel room I have done this several times now.I am upset about it because he makes way more money then me he makes $6,000 a month and i only make $800 a month.
candynerka
46-50, F
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Earthwrap 路 41-45, M
Maybe evaluate if you are in this relationship for the money or not because it sounds like you are taking a lot of abuse from a guy while staying with him.
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novaguy2u 路 70-79, M
Kick him loose, he's a cheapskate and abusing your relationship with him.
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candynerka 路 46-50, F
@novaguy2u i wish all men were still like you.
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novaguy2u 路 70-79, M
@candynerka P.S. My g/f and I earn roughly the same.
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novaguy2u 路 70-79, M
@candynerka Blushes modestly!馃ぃ
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Yulianna 路 22-25, F
why do you need a hotel room?
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ScarletWitch 路 26-30, F
Wow. Even if he makes more money and usually pays why are you even upset for giving in equal half on one occasion. So entitled. 馃檮馃檮馃檮
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candynerka 路 46-50, F
@ScarletWitch its been more than one occasion
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ScarletWitch 路 26-30, F
@candynerka what makes you think you should get everything for free? 馃檮 I've always paid my equal half of everything. And he makes more. But I still do it because that is what equality is.
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candynerka 路 46-50, F
@ScarletWitch explain
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sleepykoala 路 31-35, F
That's upsetting. He knows you dont earn much, why he ask you to pay?
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sleepykoala 路 31-35, F
Who is the one initiate to go to hotel? Him?
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candynerka 路 46-50, F
@sleepykoala we both do but this last time it was him
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sleepykoala 路 31-35, F
@candynerka okay if this really upset you, you can always talk it out with him if next time you decide to sharing payment in anything.

Although its not a bad thing to do that sometimes in relationship, he is a boyfriend though, not husband its not like he need to provide us everything :D try to talk things out if you really care about your relationship
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Harriet03 路 41-45, F
Charge him for your time!
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SevenTierCrazyCake 路 F
Looks like he might be making a point.
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gurlwatcher22 路 61-69, M
Shitcan him.Move on.
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