I had to pay half of the hotel

I been with my boyfriend for 9 months now.He usually pays for everything,but the other day he asked me to pay half of the hotel room I have done this several times now.I am upset about it because he makes way more money then me he makes $6,000 a month and i only make $800 a month.

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sleepykoala · 31-35, F

That's upsetting. He knows you dont earn much, why he ask you to pay?

candynerka · 46-50, F

@sleepykoala I don't know

sleepykoala · 31-35, F

@candynerka rule no 1 in relationship: "communicate" :)

sleepykoala · 31-35, F

Ask him. Dont hold your gut, if its bother you then ask him

candynerka · 46-50, F

@sleepykoala he just said that he always pays for everything and he spends a lot of money on me

sleepykoala · 31-35, F

@candynerka how much you pay for the hotel?

sleepykoala · 31-35, F

@candynerka that's kinda red flag if he told you in that kind of tone. Maybe you guys are trying to safe money?

candynerka · 46-50, F

@sleepykoala 70 each

sleepykoala · 31-35, F

@candynerka oh honestly dear that's not a lot. Why you are so upset?

sleepykoala · 31-35, F

Who is the one initiate to go to hotel? Him?

candynerka · 46-50, F

@sleepykoala we both do but this last time it was him

sleepykoala · 31-35, F

@candynerka okay if this really upset you, you can always talk it out with him if next time you decide to sharing payment in anything.

Although its not a bad thing to do that sometimes in relationship, he is a boyfriend though, not husband its not like he need to provide us everything :D try to talk things out if you really care about your relationship