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I wanna say this to him so badly but he’ll probably think I’m a psycho 🤧

Zoranna · F
Don't send it. It's demeaning and you're worth more than that. I doubt he'd care anyway. Keep your dignity.
SW-User
That’s way too long for the normal guy to read.
lemons · F
Tbh I tried to keep it as short as possible lol @SW-User
SW-User
@lemons I would say cool your engines for a bit. Don’t show your hand. Play strong. Make him know what he’s missing.
SW-User
You aren't a psycho, you're a young woman who feels used. I think you should tell him for your sake, screw what he thinks.
SW-User
@SW-User Well you have mine anyway👌
SW-User
@SW-User thanks chief
SW-User
@SW-User No problem sweet cheeks
Bluemoon · 26-30, F
Take it as a life lesson and move on. Whatever you say to him won’t teach him a lesson nor regain your virginity
lemons · F
Yea you’re right @Bluemoon
ABCDEF7 · M
I think there is nothing wrong in saying what you feel at heart. What he did is called cheating.

A person who doesn't respects woman and uses her for his sexual interests should be insulted in front of his society, such men don't make a good society. They don't deserve a woman in their lives.
SW-User
@ABCDEF7 takes two. She made the decision to go with it.
ABCDEF7 · M
@SW-User we take decisions to make our lives better. If that makes her feel better with that decision she should stay with that. It's never late to take a right decision for you.
ABCDEF7 · M
@SW-User Unless such guys are not insulted in public, they will not learn to respect women and their emotions.
Dan193 · 31-35, M
So you waited for the right guy?
lemons · F
Unfortunately no @Dan193
SW-User
That isn't crazy
Zaphod42 · 46-50, M
It's not psycho at all. If it'll be cathartic for you then go for it. But if he's really that kinda guy then it'll just be for your benefit...he won't give it a second thought.
Ryannnnnn · 31-35, M
Nobody likes being used, if anything i think honesty is a medicine a lot of people need.
Rokasu · 36-40, M
To be young again.
ScarletWitch · 26-30, F
11knaves11 · 41-45, M
Send that shit. Most he gonna do is not respond
11knaves11 · 41-45, M
@greenmountaingal your entitled to your opinion. You must know her personally.
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@11knaves11 No more than anyone here. But her situation is very common. It's OK if she wants to send it. I just don't think it likely she will find his response or non-response comforting. I don't know her, but what she describes is pretty common.

Lemons, if you think that sending this message will make you feel better, then send it. I hope his response is a good one and helps you feel less used.
SW-User
carsonfry · 22-25, M
This is all true, that is why you need to stick to your values. Don't let any guy take them from you until he gives you the ring.
Stop being dramtic hows that being psycho
lemons · F
Idk. You know how guys are. When girls get attached too quickly they think we’re ‘crazy’ or whatever lol @silentkillx2
@lemons oh ok i see what u mean now
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@lemons Believing you are "crazy" is just a way to invalidate your feelings of being used which may very well be legitimate. Don't worry about what he thinks; it's what you think that counts. Do what makes you feel OK in this situation.
Send it and keep him outta ur life
MrBrownstone · 46-50, M
SW-User
Don’t waste your breath on him... he doesn’t sound worthy or even capable of intellect
JP1119 · 36-40, M
That’s cool. Send it.
SW-User
@JP1119 you know it's not cool!!! Come on. You're a dude. That kind of message from a woman is totally unattractive.
JP1119 · 36-40, M
@SW-User Seems reasonable to me, but then I’m still a virgin. Never even had a girlfriend before.
Jonjdw · 46-50, M
Sex or whatever?

 
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