I wanna say this to him so badly but he’ll probably think I’m a psycho 🤧

Yea and that’s what I don’t want. 😪@11knaves11

@lemons isn't it gonna bother you if you never know?

@11knaves11 She [i]does[/i] know. She just doesn't like what she knows. And she is hoping he will tell her it's not true. If he does, it will be unusual in this kind of situation...and a lie as well. He has used her and he is unlikely to admit it and apologize. Her attempts to change that will not help unfortunately.

@greenmountaingal your entitled to your opinion. You must know her personally.

@11knaves11 No more than anyone here. But her situation is very common. It's OK if she wants to send it. I just don't think it likely she will find his response or non-response comforting. I don't know her, but what she describes is pretty common.

Lemons, if you think that sending this message will make you feel better, then send it. I hope his response is a good one and helps you feel less used.

@greenmountaingal exactly