For anyone who has a positive view of themselves

@Coralmist You're so welcome! And I understand very much. Ty for BC btw. I had an issue recently where I'd said on some lives that I didn't drink anymore and was immediately mocked for not being like everyone else and "thinking I'm better" when I never said anything like that. I come from a family who struggles with alcohol issues and drug issues and quitting was big for me. My partner also has never been a drinker. But people will drag you down bc your success reminds them of things they aren't doing. You weren't doing anything wrong, it just made them feel inadequate and I'm glad you see it and got away from it. You don't deserve that abuse. You deserve encouragement and support.

@DancingStarGoddess Thanks Dancing and you deserve support too🌹

@Coralmist you're so welcome, thank you kindly 💖💞💝

@GerOttman Growing up being abused for tiny mistakes was awful... mentally or physically. So I became a perfectionist hoping to not make a mistake. In jobs, friendship etc. it's exhausting and it created a huge amount of anxiety. I'm so tired of constant self doubt, it's been crippling. I like your idea of just saying Hey won't do that again, and that's it. 🌼not wondering how bad I am because of a mistake. Thanks🌠

@Coralmist See I tended to go the other way. I didn't have the vocabulary to understand my situation but I knew I wasn't being treated right. Once I figured out that nothing I did was ever going to be right I quit trying. I kind of figured if I was going to be criticized anyway why bother trying. This of course resulted in a cycle of escalation on the part of my parents and increased refusal on mine. It wasn't until I got out that I found out I was actually good at stuff.