The reasons I hate sex chat 1) it takes 2 - 3 hours to get anywhere worth while. I don't have...

The latter is basically describing the nature of friends with benefits. I think if both know where they stand, there's no harm done

But it also just sounds like you find stimulation in things that are more deeper which is more than okay

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

Do you write such long interactions on a mobile device? I find that very difficult. If i want to have an extensive chat, i make sure i am on my computer.

anythingoes477 · 31-35, M

Just playing Devil's advocate..............but isn't sexting using each other? And so yes...........I'm pretty sure when people come here to sex chat........they DO want a fantasy....a fake person....they can make into whatever or whoever they want in their minds.

The value that has to someone depends on how they view sex If a one is asexual then sexting....sex itself.....isn't a big deal anyway. But if one is sexual........then that is a whole 'nuther' deal. So it may not be the way a person approaches you sexually you have fault with. Its being approached at all.

Pherick · 41-45, M

Its really one of those things for me that needs to have a good relationship/friendship before you add anything like this. Do I like having some fun sexts sometimes? Sure why not, but I certainly don't want to be the only thing we talk about or do.

JimboSaturn · 56-60, M

I used to find it titilating, but now so much anymore for the reasons you've stated.

Sequoia51 · 70-79, M

Thank you

CountScrofula · 41-45, M

I haven't done that stuff in a *while* but yeah like... this is brain stimulation stimulate the goddamn brain. Everyone needs to become a writer of great erotica and step their game up because that's half the fun.