The reasons I hate sex chat

The latter is basically describing the nature of friends with benefits. I think if both know where they stand, there's no harm done

But it also just sounds like you find stimulation in things that are more deeper which is more than okay

Do you write such long interactions on a mobile device? I find that very difficult. If i want to have an extensive chat, i make sure i am on my computer.

Just playing Devil's advocate..............but isn't sexting using each other? And so yes...........I'm pretty sure when people come here to sex chat........they DO want a fantasy....a fake person....they can make into whatever or whoever they want in their minds.

The value that has to someone depends on how they view sex If a one is asexual then sexting....sex itself.....isn't a big deal anyway. But if one is sexual........then that is a whole 'nuther' deal. So it may not be the way a person approaches you sexually you have fault with. Its being approached at all.

Its really one of those things for me that needs to have a good relationship/friendship before you add anything like this. Do I like having some fun sexts sometimes? Sure why not, but I certainly don't want to be the only thing we talk about or do.

I used to find it titilating, but now so much anymore for the reasons you've stated.

Yup!

Thank you

Question.........1) .2-3 hours? You are using your hands......right?? I mean there are vids showing you how.
2) Ahhhhh.......yes. If it's S-e-x c-h-a-t................its what you talk about...............Sex.
3).Paragraphs to read????...........while mastrurbating????.......that is kind of overkill don't you think. Kinda kills the moment.. KISS principle........Hold dick...touch clit....go for it is kinda more like it. Just saying.
4) VERY few have nothing more to offer than sex chat...........but DURING sex chat.....that is kind of the point, isn't it? Offering JUST sex chat.
5) Just saying (again) the topic.....for the moment.......IS sex chat. If you want well rounded............talk again about other things.........then judge how well rounded a person is. Surely you don't think a discussion on economics or politics or current affairs should be part of a "sex chat" ?
6) This one is spot on. Can't argue here. Its momentary fun..........not match making for life.
7) Frankly.......yes. Sex chat is fantasy......so fake ass fantasy is the core of sex chat. Imagination and fantasy......about some one "fake".....some thing fake happening.

I won't ask you too.

I haven't done that stuff in a *while* but yeah like... this is brain stimulation stimulate the goddamn brain. Everyone needs to become a writer of great erotica and step their game up because that's half the fun.

And like everything else to do with sex, I discover the party three days late, when the fun has finished and everyone has gone home.....

Sex chatting is way better in paragraph form. You end up with a whole erotic novel! 😆

In order to...get there?

Not for me.

I’m honestly surprised people still do the sexy chat thing.

But if sex chat lasts 2 to 3 hours, that is longer than normal sex at just one hour