The reasons I hate sex chat

1) it takes 2 - 3 hours to get anywhere worth while. I don't have that kind of time to waste.

2) it ends up being the only thing you end up talking about. It gets boring and stale real fast.

3) it tells me how simplistic the other person is. I'm a parachatter, meaning, I write paragraphs because I'm a writer by nature. If you can't do the same, you're boring

4) if the only thing you have to offer me is sexy chat, you literally have no value to me.

5) it tells me you aren't a well rounded person who knows how to engage someone in the right ways.

6) I'm going to lose interest in you within days, so I don't even want to start.

Seriously, sexy chat *is* fun, but if I partake in it with you, it means I literally don't care about you or who you are and am happy to use you.

Is that what you really want? A fake ass person?

That's why I don't.

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samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

Do you write such long interactions on a mobile device? I find that very difficult. If i want to have an extensive chat, i make sure i am on my computer.

FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F

@samueltyler2 On the phone. I don't use my computer for anything social. I mostly use it for gaming and writing.

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

@FoxyGoddess my daughter is about your age and she is as you, able to write on a phone, although most of what she writes is via voice recognition.

FoxyGoddess · 51-55, F

@samueltyler2 I don't do voice to chat. If I'm talking by myself, I'm talking to myself, not at an inanimate object. That feels weird to me.

samueltyler2 · 80-89, M

@FoxyGoddess i wrote an entire book that way. It ended up as 14 lectures that I have that was converted into a MS Word document that i turn edited.