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Do Family, Friends, Co-Workers know you're into BDSM?

I was wondering if anyone close to you knows that you are into bdsm? How did they find out? Do you share your experiences with them?

Once upon a time I was at a convention with a female business associate who happens to be vanilla in nature. Somehow the topic of handcuffs with sex came up and she asked me if I ever did that? Then I shared with her my life as a domme. I told her about a few of my subs who are into it. We then talked and joked about some of the stories I shared.

Kindly feel free to share yours.

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BohemianBabe · M

Some of my friends know I'm a subbie. I'm a thicc femboy, so it kinda goes with the territory.
I also used to work for my sugar daddy, which was lots of fun. I'm pretty sure some of the other employees there had suspicions about us. 😳

inherimage · F

@BohemianBabe So it's not just me alone. I have a few of mu subs who work remotely for me and I so much enjoy the work relationship to others.

Oneprez · 46-50, C

My family dont know, but her sister do know about our lifestyle.
Most of my friends know, but her friends dont.
A few of my co-workers and colleagues knows and it has never been any issues with that.

BlueVeins · 22-25

Yes, I told my boss that I'm into pegging during the job interview. She vomited a little in her mouth but hired me anyway.

inherimage · F

@BlueVeins Your boss must also be into it too. LOL

BlueVeins · 22-25

@inherimage no im just really good at actuarial reports

kinkymale · 56-60, M

Yep, our friends do, we are quite open about things. We dont just say what we get up to but when we are together and the conversation turns to sex then we just chat about it.

robb65 · 56-60, M

A few know or at least suspect. There's one couple in particular that I built furniture for their "play room".

VeronicaJane

@robb65 "play room" furniture?

robb65 · 56-60, M

@VeronicaJane Yeah, The wife called me up one day wanting to discuss a bed. The story goes she walked into a furniture store to look at beds and asked the salesman if a particular bed was strong enough to swing from. He says "no, we don't have anything like that", she replies "Ok, I guess I'll have to call my cabinetmaker". So I built her a bed with a frame around the top strong enough to hang her husband from. Then there was a stand for about a 12 channel electrosex machine ( picture tens machine on steroids). Then there was a bondage chair that folded out into multiple positions..... There was a discussion about an adult size playpen/ changing table that never got built, I guess they must have been moving into ABDL kinda stuff.

At the time they had a playroom in a building a couple hundred yards from their house. The bed eventually got moved to the main house and the play room was repurposed for something else. Not sure what happened with the rest of their toys.

inherimage · F

@robb65 cool

Markarth95 · 26-30

My family mostly doesn't know aside from my sister and her husband. Plenty of friends know though

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Markarth95 · 26-30

@VeronicaJane well my sister once caught me outside a bar in town hooking up with a guy wearing leather. That required some explaining 😂

VeronicaJane

@Markarth95 did she have any idea before? Has she kept your secret?

Markarth95 · 26-30

@VeronicaJane she may have known. We have a lot of mutual friends. But no, she hasn't told the family. Which is good because I've kept her secrets too

being · 36-40, F

Well none knows much but I feel so ready to get into it.

inherimage · F

@being Welcome to the family.

Davidmsr07 · 18-21, M

My GF has just introduced me to chastity, says it will make our connections stronger

VeronicaJane

@Davidmsr07 with her in charge of course. Has she introduced the idea of you wearing panties, stockings and bra; or perhaps watching her with other men or cleaning her up orally while she tells you what men they were and how they totally satisfied her?

Davidmsr07 · 18-21, M

@VeronicaJane as far as I know she hasn't been with any other men. She has not said anything about panties or other stuff but that it will be a few weeks before I see my penis