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What if your boyfriend/girlfriend doesn’t even text you or send you a message for a week… do you break up?

outside of a reason like - death of relative… Is ‘it’s a busy time’ a good enough excuse?
Blitzy · 13-15, T
Honestly probably, im currently going through that situation right now. he hasnt texted me in a week, no texts or ANYTHING. but hes been online but is js ghosting me or something.
Jennster · 18-21, F
@Blitzy that is just cruel!
lesulk · 31-35, M
It really depends on the context but most likely you're gonna need a very good excuse for that to be accepted because sending at least 1 text doesn't require much effort even if you're busy
No, that would not be a good excuse. Even in very busy times, you can always find time for at least one text a day to the person that matters most to you.
laurieluvsit · 26-30, F
If it is a committed relationship then...
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
Thats awful, im sorry. Last time that happened theyd actually left me and someone else had to tell me what happened. I then discovered theyd got another date lined up.
It's a personal decision but yeah, if you haven't texted me for a week and you don't have a decent excuse then realistically you're gone.
in10RjFox · M
Wait for the weekend. Monday you can block and unsubscribe. If one does not remember during weekend something is wrong.
noexpectations1 · 41-45, M
No, not at all! If something was wrong, they would say so, not play little ghosting games
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
Were you sending them messages?
Jennster · 18-21, F
@Dolimyte yes a message to check in but not more didnt wanna seem desperate
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
@Jennster so it's not like he was ignoring you. Tell him you miss him and enjoy getting his messages. Communication is key in any relationship. If you are considering legitimately ending your relationship over such a small thing, you may want to reconsider if you should be in the relationship in the first place.
The guy you've been stalking is *not* your bf...
Jennster · 18-21, F
@SomeMichGuy what do you know about it - who says I’m stalking anyone?
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samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
sadly, I think you already have.
Happened with my fiancée. Turned out to be technical issues (she's my wife now)
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