How/where do/Should men draw the line between a girl "playing hard to get" and her just Not being interested?

"just keep trying harder" and "playing hard to get" is a myth perpetuated by stories and movies that encourage the idea that harassment and not listening to a no is ok as long as she eventually breaks down and falls in love with you at the end of the movie. Because then all is forgiven.

But the truth is...it's not ok. Always respect someone saying no.

Because it's the right thing to do.

And in the off chance she is being dishonest and wants you and is lying to you...you probably don't want to get with someone like that anyway. Be with someone who wants you and shows you that.

It's not that confusing. No means no. Just pick up a dictionary if you don't understand two-letter words.

Choose self respect. Don’t allow yourself to be used in anyone’s game. Make yourself the one hard to get and simply walk away. If she’s truly interested, she’ll make amends. If not, you just saved yourself some grief.

Honestly, a girl that plays games isn't worth your time... just like a man who's a player isn't worth a girl's time.

Narcissistic women hold up hoops for you to jump through and you can never quite please them in your attempts.
Narcissistic men think every woman is hot for them and need constant ego boosting
Neither of this is really attractive to decent people.

And if a decent woman says ,"no" she means it and trying harder could be preceived as stalking.

Corny as it is you have to be yourself the right person will like you.
No game playing required.

These people here acting like you're not 100. 😂 Women are confusing af. If one rejects me, I'd just take it literally and if they didn't mean it that way then they should have been more honest.

The thing is,, someone who plays those kinds of games isn't worth pursuing anyway.

Best to take all indicators of disinterest at face value.

You have some very red flags

It's easy... If she says "No", you say "Thank you for your time" and move on to the next one.

If she's into all this "Chase me, chase me" bs, then she hasn't finished middle school yet - and you don't need to be around that drama.

When my wife and I were dating in college, she was at a different university and free to date others. She told them about me, but some guys were convinced she was just playing hard to get. She made a point to introduce them to me as "the one that I love." We shook hands and they stopped pushing her and just enjoyed being a friend with benefits.

I only need to hear no once, that’s the good thing about having better options. 😂😂😂

when she's on the phone to the police station

No means no end of.

Always a minefield

Just don’t give up

Treat "no" like NO and you can’t go wrong. It’s 2024, if she’s interested she’ll find a reason to approach you.

22 WAYS!!! 🤣🤣🤣

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With chark

2 dates

Effort. If there’s effort without energy she’s usually playing hard to get. If it’s blunt and no effort at all then she’s not interested

When ANY girl and woman says no, IT FUCKING MEANS NO