Hold on did it happen for real? I had a date with a guy he is kind okay, we had drinks talked...

Coldplay · 61-69, M

Perhaps he was being a gentleman and not pushy.

Mamapolo2016 · F

You have captured a rare prize.

Someone who is willing to invest a little time.

It may have been disappointing, but it’s not rude.

When YOU feel a little more confident, kiss HIM.

SinlessOnslaught · 26-30, M

Because a different woman would find that rude and he can't read your mind.

blackarcher256 · 61-69, M

I’m old school. I was taught that it was being too forward to kiss a woman on a first date. But, if I wanted a second date, I was always bold enough to ask for one…wink!

NinaCherry · 26-30, F

to each his own. to me he would come off as creep if he tried to

Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M

Well perhaps he didn't feel comfortable that was the right thing to do.

Or maybe he'd tried that in the past and got a response that makes him think twice these days.

We're all products of our past experiences.

DrWatson · 70-79, M

I would call that "being a gentleman."

On the one hand, if he wants to ask you out again, then he did not want to come across as pushy.

On the other hand, if he decided he is not interested, he did not want to mislead you.

Rilyn · 31-35, F

Not sure you should be expecting kisses on a first date? I wouldn't. Honest reply. Me and my partner were friends for a long time before we even considered kissing.

BlueVeins · 22-25

Why didn't you kiss him?

exexec · 61-69, C

You just described my first date with my wife. I was just shy and not confident in my kissing ability.

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

First date? I dont think that happens most of the time

DunningKruger · 61-69, M

Sometimes it's difficult to gauge where you are with a girl on a first date. Are we at "Good night; it was fun," or are we in "Why, yes, I would love to come up for a 'nightcap,' wink, wink, nudge, nudge," or somewhere between.

Strongtea · 22-25, M

Maybe he was nervous? I went on a date with a girl I really liked and was too nervous to kiss her.

Theyitis · 36-40, M

You’re supposed to kiss on the first date? Is that what I’ve been doing wrong all this time?

Teslin · M

I never push for a kiss. Definitely a hug possibly, depending on how the date went.

Bleak · 36-40, F

It is not rude.

JamesBugman · 56-60, T

Maybe you didn't give off that kind of vibe. Hard to guess. Did you look him in the eyes, and invade his personal space. I think he needs to be able to smell you, and feel your body heat, and there has to be some magic happening.

ronisme1 · 61-69, M

Shy?

Fluffybull · F

It's certainly not rude. Maybe he's shy, maybe he's afraid of it being misconstrued in this PC world, maybe doesn't want to be pushy coz he really likes you.