I cheat on my husband

I understand, it's the thrill of the forbidden. Enjoy as long as you can!

Does your husband know about your lover?

I understand, but it’s even better when hubby is in on sharing you. I get the cheating thrill though.

So your hubby doesn't know?

I feel sorry for him...

The thrill is what does it, I think.

He might do the same ;)

Out of curiosity, what is it that drives you to having a secret lover? Is it the thrill, the excitement, or the possibility of being caught. Eventually one's spouse may become suspicious.

It is interesting that cheaters will do things with their affair partners, that they would never consider doing with their spouse.

If you've been married 9 years, is this your second marriage or did you decide not to divorce your husband because of children/finances?

If I recall correctly, your husband fantasized about you being a hot wife, encouraged you to do it but got upset when you started seeing other men on your own and not at his bidding (in other words he was no longer in control). Is this the same husband or a second one?

Is it cheating if your husband wanted you to be a hot wife?

I have read articles that suggest people will cheat, but not want a divorce because that person fulfills a need, or provides some security. However they lose attraction, or passion, and seek it elsewhere. They then may do things with the affair partner that they would never consider doing with their spouse.

Lucky secret lover!!!

Variety is good 😉😛

go girl

How long have you been married?

You are not Cheating, as you are not planning to marry your lover or elope with your lover. You have the right to have a lover since your husband is not providing that for you.

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the illicit thrill....powerful thing. I"ve done things with others I'd have never have done at home, mostly because she had no interest

I think it is more of a challenge to do those things with only your boyfriend

Adds thrill to it, or so my wife told me

I can just imagine the derogatory attacks and name calling by the women commenting here IF a man posted the same thing.

My wife said "Good luck." She did all of her cheating before we married and felt totally guilty.

This proves my point …

Go about life with less distractions.

Enjoy variety is good 😉

You should find a cuckold mate that doesn't mind your activities. I have been with many women ,who were happy to do anything with me that they had refused to do with their hubby even with their hubby watching them . It is pretty common actually. That way you can play and have your fun and not destroy your relationship. Just a thought.

Gross

@Jusmarried You're crusing for bruising, if not for a coffin.

@Jusmarried
One thing is obvious by your own admission and that is you are an untrustworthy liar. When you got married you took an oath to be faithful and to forsake all others till death do you part. Since you never had any intention of keeping your oath why did you say it in the first place?

If your husband has been faithful to you, he should dump you within a minute of hearing about your adultery and never speak to you again.

It’s more exciting with your lover

@Jusmarried This could be your future =

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Stolen sex is always thrilling

Always exciting doing things with someone other than your spouse. It’s so fucking hot

Emotional damage

Makes me glad I’m single and never getting married 🤦🏾‍♂️